My girl Mindy got mad at me, because I yelled at her for not doing a good job cleaning my apartment. Why is she mad? She's the one that didn't clean it right.
2006-09-27 15:06:48 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I paid her in bed. So she is getting the better deal.
2006-09-27 15:13:50 · update #1
She's not my only girl! I don't even care if she leaves me. What good is she if she can't even clean anyway? I just want to know if it was me or her that was wrong. That's it!
2006-09-27 20:01:36 · update #2
Some girls are just too sensitive. You should probably just dump her before she becomes an even bigger problem.
2006-09-28 12:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mia.ScrewNormal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, does she live there too? Did she volunteer or did you ask her to clean?
she is probably mad because she did give an effort to help you (Even though you felt it was substandard) and you didn't appreciate it.
If she volunteered, you are at fault for not appreciating a gift of her time and effort.
If you asked her to and she agreed, then she should have asked what exactly needed to be done.
BTW, did you really yell or just ***** at her? Bitching is one thing but yelling can be abusive.
2006-09-27 15:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh! I would be mad at you too. Does she live with you? Or is she just being a sweet girlfriend by cleaning your place for you? If you are not satisfied with the job she does you either need to do it yourself or hire a cleaning service.
Oh... and one more thing.. I find it hilarious you are considering yourself "Dirt Diggler". You actually think you can compare to him?
Okay so I am not done yet. You pay her in BED??!! If I knew where you were I would come kick your @ss right now. Not only is she your slave but she is also your sex kitten? You can not seriously consider sex as payment. YOUR A DIRTY WHORE!! And you don't deserve any woman. At all.
2006-09-27 15:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by shotohell7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a pig. Why is it her job to clean YOUR apartment????
She was doing something to help you out and you have to turn around and be an ungrateful bastard. If i was her, that would be the last time i did anything to try and help you out.
If you don't like the way she cleaned your apartment, DO IT YOURSELF NEXT TIME!!!!!
Try appreciating her a little more. Sounds like you have a great woman. not all woman would even attempt to clean their bf's apt.
You need to realize what you've got, before you lose her.
2006-09-27 15:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by medgirl83 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pick your battles dude. Doesn't matter if she did a good or bad job, at least she cleaned your apartment.
Why don't you clean your own apartment if you're so picky about how it looks.
Sometimes when you want a job done right, you have to do it yourself.
2006-09-27 15:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shes most likely mad because she actually TOOK the time to clean YOUR apartment & you thank her by yelling at her. I say you should control your anger before you loose her and i also say LEARN HOW TO CLEAN YOURSELF its not a womans job to CLEAN after men
2006-09-27 15:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? She cleaned YOUR appartment and you yell at HER for doing it wrong? First of all be grateful that shes even cleaning your apartment, no matter how bad of a job she did. Clean your own appartment, and you'll probably have to clean hers too at this point.
2006-09-27 15:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Gangsta-Licous 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's like throwing salt on a open wound. She did the best she could and for you to question that after the blood, sweat and tears she put in is a slap in the face. Maybe if you didn't yell then she wouldn't of cried, remember its not what you say but how you say it. Maybe you should have said thank you first?
2006-09-27 15:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by LaLa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're wrong and you know it. Don't take her for granted. Someone else will appreciate her and you'll be left with a serious case of regrets. Show appreciation and if you want your apartment cleaned a certain way, clean it yourself.
2006-09-27 15:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by curious51867 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because she cleaned it as a favor to you, and you criticized her gift. Like telling somebody you want the new ipod and them giving you $50 bucks towards it. You're a jerk if you tell them that isn't enough to buy one. Be grateful that she wants to make you feel special by doing things for you that you should be doing yourself. And that's the best answer you're going to get whether you agree or not.
2006-09-27 15:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by kjoeyqanda 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because first of all you shouldnt have yelled at her...there is a way to talk to a person...it probably had nothing to do with what you said...but how you said it...next time clean your own place that way you don't have to yell at nobody...oh and you do owe her an apology cause you hurt her feelings...but you already know that...i get the feeling you feel guilty...because you would not have took the time out to talk about it...
2006-09-27 15:15:20 · answer #11 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋