all i ever hear is that when people have sex tooo early it ruins their strong relationship. is it true? has it happened to you?
2006-09-27 15:06:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, I met my wifey and we slept together the 1st time we met and we got married 5 months later and have now been married, very happily married for over 12 years now. Just follow you heart. My wifey is my SOUL MATE and we both knew it was right from hello
2006-09-27 15:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by MexiShortieHubby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not,
Unless your relationship is based entirely on sex. In which case, where's the problem?
Sex should have nothing whatsoever to do with anything but sex. Attaching emotional nonsense to the act only confuses the issue and complicates a relationship. Have sex for the sake of sex and leave the rest of that trivial bullshit out of it.
Part of the reason we have a 50% divorce rate is that everybody continually referrs to sex as "making love".
Notice that every divorced sucker in the world thought he was in love.
Stop associating sex with love and stop thinking that it has anything to do with your relationship. One does not and should not have anything to do with the other. Period.
Either have sex or not. Have a relationship or not. Do not think for even a moment that you have any business being in a relationship or having sex at all if you can't distinguish between the two.
2006-09-27 15:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It always depends on the individuals in the relationship. It's different for everyone. Some people think of sex as just a casual thing, while others view it as a connection of the souls. Every person thinks differently, and how early is too early?
2006-09-27 15:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by tweenky1982 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in a lot of cases, having sex too early does ruin it. BUT, not all the time. i have a bf and i thought we did too, it scared me bc i really like him. the only thing with having sex too early is that there's nothing more to really aim for (some guys might think) but if he really likes you, he'll try to get to know you also. and you never know, it might last long.
2006-09-27 15:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by honey amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isnt always true. As long as a couple doesnt make the relationship based ON sex, then there shouldnt be a problem. Good luck!
2006-09-27 15:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by Donna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no point in taking the chance when you don't know exactly where the other person is coming from; if it is their plan to use you, of course, you need to be on guard and take the time to see problems in the relationship.
2006-09-27 15:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends... If you feel that your ready go for it... It May change the relationship for the better or worse...but not necessarily ruin it...good luck
2006-09-27 15:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by Pepperpaige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does ruin ur relationship b/c thats one of the big reason the guy is in the relationship. if u start to early he'll tire of u and move on. if u have "love" then he can stick it out longer, but "love" takes a long time to create
2006-09-27 15:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by neverland22 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
People ruin relationships.. sex doesn't cause any harm.
2006-09-27 20:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends
2006-09-27 16:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by royal_treat2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋