I like this guy at work. He is 15 years older than me. Two weeks ago, i started to flirt with him. I think he noticed that i'm flirting with him too. For the past few days, he did firt with me indirectly. What do you think will happen ?? Do you think i read him wrong?
2006-09-27 15:04:38 · 12 answers · asked by 2006xx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mister Wizard is 15 years older than me and we are extremely happy. I think the younger you are the bigger difference the age gap will make. The other thing to consider is, regardless of age, the ramifications of dating a co-worker. What happens if it ends badly and you two still have to see each other everyday? Are you willing to deal with that or to get a new job?
2006-09-27 15:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Wizard's Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience older men aren't really all that great. They are also bolder than younger guys so if it's been 2 weeks and you still don't know then he probably is not into you. I could be wrong though due to my bitter past. but if you were 35 would you date a 20 year old? You have practically nothing in common. What will you talk about? OK some relationships based on sex work who knows? Good luck.
2006-09-27 22:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you two should leave each other alone! 15 years is like a HUGE gap! lets say you were 20.. he is 35! lets even say you are 45, HE IS 60!!! That is absolutely disgusting! do if you want, but i sure wouldnt!! Think about your future kids with him.. it is very embarrassing to have a mom that is 45 married to your father who is 60!! I just can't get over that! ew.. sick.. gross
leave him alone, and nothing can go wrong!
2006-09-27 22:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by ~beautiful mystery~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,
If i were you i would not go there, I'm 27 and the most i would even consider is somebody seven years away from me,
15 year is a huge points spread and they rarely last,
Besides your at work, I've went after a nu,ver of girls at work over the years, none have worked out, and when you guys' break up, yeah you'll really wan to come to work then,
Plus it puts you at risk to get into trouble at work,
if i were you i'd try to stay friends
2006-09-27 22:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not. My husband (estranged) is 12 yrs older than me. We danced around for the longest time b/c both of us were afraid to come out and say we liked each other. Just ask him - unless he's married. Then, forget it.
2006-09-27 22:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out on a date or exchange numbers and get to know each other better
2006-09-27 22:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if his older than u maybe his just messing w/ u or he could like u... try to talk to him & u might find out or just wait until he says something...could luck!!!
2006-09-27 22:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by solymar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes just leary because of the age difference.
2006-09-27 22:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know. But go for it. Keep flirting see what happens
2006-09-27 22:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no or maybe why u girls are shy to tell guys that u like them
2006-09-27 22:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋