I know he does, b/c I see it on his computer. And I 've already confronted him and he still denies that he does. He knows, b/c of past relationships, that I have a problem w/ porn. Should I be worried b/c he's doing it, because he's lying about it, or should I just let it ride? Should I just be happy with the fact that he's trying to protect my feelings?
2006-09-27 14:46:21 · 16 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start looking at porn with hot naked men with big penises and set it up so he 'accidentally' cathches you. You need to act like you are really into it though or else he'll know you are doing it on purpose. This will make him feel belittled and possibly develop some empathy for you. Good luck!
2006-09-27 14:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you lookin on the computer ....and him lying about the porn is a huge trust issue. If you told him you had a problem with it in the beginning and he agreed not to, the lying is not being done to protect your feelings. The only way you should let it ride is if you can overcome the way you feel about him doing this....or it will bother you for the rest of your life. Another option...which may or may not change the way he looks at porn is....try something new...maybe even kinky in the bedroom. show him you can be the pornstar he's wasting time on the internet looking for. and you're real. I wish ya the best of luck.
2006-09-27 14:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by katie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO you should NOT be happy about it.You can see if he has been looking by doing this:Click start.
Click search on pop up box.
You will see a sundial directly on the right of the media Icon.Just click on the little sundial.That is your history box.It will appear on the left hand side of the screen.Now,you can open the words that say today,last week,two weeks ago etc.There it will show what sites he has visited.
2006-09-27 14:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all honesty i read all the others but the truth is that its normal-absolutely normal for him to still look @ porn...trust me! let it ride b/c 72% of the men in the world do not stop looking @ porn even after theyre married..he's just trying to have some fun...as long as he's treating u right id say everyhtings A OK!
2006-09-27 14:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by haloexodus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying about something, especially something you are especially concerned about is a pretty serious issue in my opinion. Almost all guys do it (sadly) but he should be honest about it. If you know that he does it, and he doesn't "know" that you know, then tell him. Tell him why you know, how you are sure. Basically confront him if you haven't. I really don't think he's protecting your feelings by lying to you.
2006-09-27 14:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by Chris M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is ok,but the lying needs to stop,porn can help your love life if you two are into sex yet.
2006-09-27 14:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if its messing up your relationship both of you gotta talk it out. maybe the reason is that he wants to stop but hes addicted to it already. that happens a lot too. the main thing is just to talk it out and if that doesnt work and you are still gettting bothered the best thing would be to leave him and find someone else that respects you more.
2006-09-27 14:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. Porn is a nothing more than images on a screen. Unless he asks you to try this or that, let it go. If he does ask you to try something you don't want to do then dump him.
2006-09-27 14:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop, because you are willing to:
1. Blow him every time before you have sex
2. Try every position imagineable
3. Bring your girlfriend to have a wild threesome.
4. Do anal or DP
5. Swallow at the end, or let him c*m on your t!ts.
2006-09-27 14:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has you and he is looking at porn, why not try to give him what he is looking for?
2006-09-27 14:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by Don W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋