I think I get jealous or mad over like everything.. I dontknow what it is.. i live with my boyfriend and like eveyrthing makes me mad. anything. like if he gets on the internet i get aggravated, if hes with his friends i get aggravted and just so on. I dont know whats up i been thinking alot about why this happens I just dont know and i really think I am the one who starts every argument and I cant help it? so just some help please. and please no A*hole remarks. this is serious cuz u could be the one needing help and then no one help you just for that remark and thankyou all :)
2006-09-27 14:42:54 · 9 answers · asked by Dawn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you have some insecurities that your not aware of. I'm not being rude by this but you should go to the doctor and tell him what's going on and maybe he could prescribe something to help you calm down a bit. I get like that with my husband right before I start but it's not all the time. You may have anxiety also. If you can't get it under control yourself then you should speak with your doctor and maybe that can help.
2006-09-27 14:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be that way too when i was younger.First is he doing or saying anything that would make you feel less than?Sometimes guys say things that really hurt the woman they are with unknowingly.Like if watching t.v Oh isnt she hot?stupid stuff they dont realize it sticks in your head.Second if this is not the case you have low self esteem,there has to be a source of where it is coming from.I would examine how you were brought up believe me bad childhoods or being put down as a child do alot of damage.I always feel secure in a relationship,if the man makes me feel number 1 he can pretty much say anything or look and it doesnt bother me.If I dont feel I rate then I feel jealous also.I do know what you are saying because what no one gets is the one getting and feeling jealous hurts the worst.Good luck to you sincerley and maybe if you could try to talk with a therapist that might really help.Just holding your feelings back like everyone is telling you is not the answer,thats only gonna make you explode one day.Or try talking with him about how you feel see what his response is maybe you just need some reassurance.
2006-09-27 21:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by maryann c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's turn this around. What if your boyfriend didn't like it if you were on the Internet. Felt the need to listen to all your calls, screen all your friends, and never give you a moments peace. Wouldn't you want to kill him or at least get as far away as you possibly could? You need to trust him, or you don't have a relationship at all. If you don't give him some air, he will definitely break away, just so he can breath. If you don't trust him, then you need to go to a relationship that you can trust. You are the one with the insecurity, not him. If I were him, I would run like hell. The old saying "If you love him, set him free. If he loves you he will come back, if he doesn't, he was never yours in the first place".....those words ring as true today as the day they were written.
2006-09-27 21:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie that comes from inside.Get a life Not trying to be funny but your paying him to much attention. Dont keep finding things or u guys will never move forward and he will get tired of u quick. Ignore him and watch him pay u sum asttention.Watch dnt say anything he expects u 2 nag about.
2006-09-27 21:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh I use to get mad over alot of stuff to.. I mean some ppl are just jelous ppl and exsepecially if you care for them.. Mabe your b/f dont remind you or tell you how he feels enough.. If he reminds you more then u wont think about him cheating.
2006-09-27 21:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by -J§G- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it may be a trust issue, do you not trust him with his friends or on the internet? you have to trust him that he isnt doing anything wrong when he is with his friends or on the internet, unless he has given you reason not to trust him. if he has this may be whear all the jealousy is coming from. if he has done nuthing wrong, dont worry about it.. good luck.
2006-09-27 21:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think before u speak & maybe that'll work & u'll be able 2 chill out
2006-09-27 21:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him, and telling him what's up. tell him that you donno why, but u get aggravated with everything... maybe you can be pregnant?? communication is the best thing in a relationship in my opinion though.
good luck
2006-09-27 21:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way:
You keep this up and you are gonna lose him for good.
2006-09-27 21:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋