so there is a guy in one of my classes that i cant stop thinking about. ive talked to him online a couple of times.. but i cant get up the courage to talk to him in person. he hasnt approached me either. we have the same taste in music and we both like to party.. but we live in different towns.. theyre like 10 min. apart. and i dont know anyone from his and he doesnt know anyone from mine.. so its not like i can bump into him at a party.. and were in college so its not like i can find his locker and run into him there.. im just not sure what to do..
2006-09-27 14:40:23 · 17 answers · asked by voliminal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over it. You are in college to grow up. Talk to him. It is not like you have to spell it out for him but you have to make contact.
2006-09-27 14:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send an email suggesting you meet up to do something fun somewhere halfway between the two of you. Don't ask him if he wants to go out, or do something some time, have a specific idea in mind and both of you can hook up with the least amount of stress as possible. Wow, in Los Angeles 10 min away is like living next door! If you dont drive, I have electric or gas scooters for both of you for $100 each as a special discount which also takes away any excuses about distances and gives you something fun to do. Yahoo store - http://store.legioncontrols.com - request scooter deal from yahoo answers.
2006-09-27 21:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by clamchop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was dating before I got married, I would wait for the guy to hit on me. I would give off the body language that I was interested, but then wait for him to make his move, but sometimes the guy is either that clueless and doesn't see it. Or he is afraid to make a move on you. So if I were you. If you feel he wont be the first to make his move on you when you've made it obvious you like him. I would just approach him. Ask him to go have drink sometime? Or ask him to help you with your homework even if you don't need help. What's the worst thing that can happen. He could say no. Or you could keep wondering what he would say and wondering what it would be like to be with him.
2006-09-27 21:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get one of your girlfriends to walk up with you and invite him out to a party, as a casual "let's go hang out" thing. Then on the night of the party, tell him your girlfriend couldn't make it, would he feel like doing something like a movie and then offer to pay-but only this time!
2006-09-27 21:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the class, ask him if he'd like to come to a party at your house.
Then at the party have a fun time with him and then later ask him out on a date.
2006-09-27 21:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by cheeseinvader1420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a friend of yours that knows someone in his town. Or find someone in his town thats easy to talk to make friends with them and get to partys that way.
2006-09-27 21:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by xoxox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting his e-mail address if he has one from one of his friends if u know any. Thats the best way or u just can try and talk to him while he's alone eating or at the library.
2006-09-27 21:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what you should do you should get the courage to go up to him. and just start makeing small talk and if it seems like he is interested you should go for it. also when you do make sure you look your cutest. then you say to him i realy like you do you want to go out on a date with me. if he says yes then you know you were ment to be with him trust me you will know if he is the one
2006-09-27 21:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by king 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to give hints that you like him online. develop a friendship and maybe go out and have coffee or lunch with him. by trying to get to know each other, he might start to like you also if he already doesnt. then work your way from there.
2006-09-27 21:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by honey amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you talk to him online, ask him out, maynot got like "hey wanna go out with me", but invite him to a party, or something like that
2006-09-27 21:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck'n Da Deuce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋