I am a very shy guy and have not got a clue on how to talk to women when i am out on the town.
How do you start talking to a woman without her automatically thinking you just want to get in her pants?
2006-09-27 14:39:30 · 16 answers · asked by rich 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get yourself a comedy wingman, send him in first and when he fails miserably (as he probably will as the comedy wingman rarely gets the girl) you can sweep in and voila!
2006-09-27 21:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by sarcasticquotemarks 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello am very Shy Too , sometime when i talk girl sometime it hard to say the things you mean just have to be your self and act real and be nice and kind also try to sit near her and buy the drink or ask her if she like go out with friend to the movies or over nice dinner
take care hope it help as am shy too
2006-09-28 04:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to start a conversation if you are shy is to get the other person to start talking about themselves. E. G. What are their opinions on..... What job do they do... do they like it... Do they have any brothers or sisters... Have they read a good book/ seen a good band/ been to a play..... What hobbies do they have? What school/college/uni do/did they go to? Where were they brought up? You're thinking of buying a ? can they recommend anything.... That should get you started!
2006-09-27 14:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by yvonne c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very long.........
Okay, first of all, don't be the silent guy that just agrees with the girl. Practically none of us girls like that. Like someone else said, look around for something in the area to spark a conversation. You've gotta get her to talk, and make sure that something you talk about is something you can relate to. We like having guys that are honest, open, not totally self-centered, and who willl talk to you. We like being able to talk to someone who can relate, not just a brick wall who just agrees with you. Just allow us to say our stuff, interrupt us a little, make it an equal conversation. If you can change the topic of the conversation on her, she doesn't mind talking to you. That's your only clue that I can give you. The rest is something I don't know. It is the girl's personality. Just compliment her, but just don't say things like ''That (whatever she is wearing) looks sexy on you." That sounds like hinting to get in the pants. Just say that she looks awesome, cool, or something friendly. Don't say things that sound like you wanna hit the bedroom with her. Just be nice, and being shy doesn't really matter, so long as you are friends. I know a lot of shy guys, and we are friends. Except I just relate to them this way they could talk :) No biggie. If you can, im me if you wanna know more. But I don't know that much. Just from friends. Just go to my Q&A.
2006-09-27 14:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come across as nice and genuine - dont be one of these sleazy gits that do be leering down her top and groping her **** and sticking your tongue down her neck withing 4 minutes of meeting her!
Talk to her - be inquisitive about what she does etc - a lady will soon be able to distinguish that you're interested in getting to know her and not just bed her. Good luck xx
2006-09-27 21:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta have something prepared that you'll say to someone so that you don't stutter your way into a conversation. If its someone you do know, try and talk about their interests and not be centered around yourself, girls hate that. If you're just trying to pick someone up you don't know, it it really hard. However, if you run into someone you do know that's pretty good looking, know ahead of time what you'll say (Hey, what's up...)
2006-09-27 14:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women love compliments. Be yourself, but do talk, a woman can't converse with a silent wall.
2006-09-27 14:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Social Reprogramming Method : http://SocialAnxiety.uzaev.com/?HfDR
2016-06-21 02:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Allison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy. when you meet a girl there are so many things you want to know about her. So ask!
We ladies like to tell you about ourselves just in general. So while you ask about her, take note and ask some more.
Don't be affraid we like guys, and we like being talked to, as long as it is genuine
2006-09-27 14:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by marliboco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around at your surroundings to look for any clues to spark a conversation.
2006-09-27 14:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by karren b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋