There's a very attractive girl in my band class, but I can't rationalize to myself why I should go up and talk to her. I can't just go up and ask her "how your day was." I don't even know her! It just wouldn't sound right. I have to say something else but I don't know what.
So what should my first words be? I just want to get to know her and see if she's willing to like me back.
2006-09-27 14:38:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi my name is Dan' What's yours' Couldn't help but notice the instrument you are playing. You are very good' Can you teach me? You can start this way. I know you said girls help. The older guys can help you with this to.
2006-09-27 14:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, im a girl iv been one for well a long time mmk.just find moments like meybe if she sbuying lunch and she doesnt have enough monny you can pay then introduce your self or the BEST WAY TO GET A GIRL TO LIKE YOU ...if you no like your band teacher and she no like him either and say he yells at her or somthing wait for her after class and be like"So that was harsh in their yeh hes a butthead or somthin but dont blow it by doing something stupid .ie if shes related to him or her in any way!ABORT PLAN!
2006-09-27 14:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like if ur waiting for something well....just find a way to get bye her then when she isnt talkin to any1 just b like hey so how it goin? and shell just b friendly back and then just the conversation will automaticaly start.....ik what u mean by how it would be weird to just go up to her so just casually bump into her or somehow get by her
2006-09-27 14:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say a friendly hey girls do NOT like his...or at least i dont. Ask things about HER don't BORE her with your life story. I hope that helped.=)
2006-09-27 14:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by princessmorgan1105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and b like "hey do u no wat we're doing in band today, b/c i really don't want to play..."
and then u have a conversation, and u get to no her, and its no longer weird to talk to her
but don't move to fast, otherwise she'll just think ur weird. start w/ that, and then later in the week ask her something else, until u get to really talk to her more
2006-09-27 14:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by neverland22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi what's your name again get to know her and when time is right ask her out.
2006-09-27 14:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Rich Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.. band is all about love. watch her play.. youll be able to tell is she likes the music or not.. then go from there. talk about how it rocks.. or how it sucks.. and let the conversation grow..
2006-09-27 14:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by voliminal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK! The awesome guy im dating rite nos frist words to me were...how are you? then we got on to how was your day I tease him about it...and he still asks me everyday "how was your day"....
I think it would be cool for u to just go up to her (be totally confident...) and say hi Im ....How are you doing?....I Love it when guuys are confident like tht!
2006-09-27 14:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Peeko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st check out what she likes to do and ask her if she can show you how to do (whatever she likes doing ) PAY CLOSE ATTENTION and make possitive comments about whatever she is teaching you or telling you?
gOOd LUck!!!!!
2006-09-27 14:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by alma61980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can "accidently" bump into her, and say you are really sorry. And then introduce your self!
2006-09-27 14:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by xoxox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋