me and this guy had the weirdest relationship, but i was okay with it. We were together but not official, yet we did not go around talking to other people. Well in the meanwhile i fell head over heels in love with him. But 2 months ago i realized he is acting differently towards me and doesn't try to c me or call me anymore. It really hurt so i talked to him and he told me that he has a girlfriend and that he still cares about me but doesn't have the same feelings i have for him. Now i see him everyday because we both go to the same university, i even coincidently have a class with him. He acts as if i was never anything to him and we look like we dont even really know each other. I hate seeing him fliritng with other girls because unfortunately i still havnt moved on at all. When i talk to him im so bipolar, one minute im so happy then next im snapping at him. I realy love him , hes my first love and i dont want to look around 4another guy, but my eyes are only set on him n no1 else.
2006-09-27 14:28:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw im 19 and hes a lil older. He's my first kiss and everything. i want him to desire me again like he once did. What will get him jealous and make him chase me? he hurt me soo badly but i care about him so much im willing to put it all behind me. I realized i need him in my life, but not in this way where i c him 2 feet infront of me and i can't hug him n kiss him or even talk to him like id usually do. OHMYGOD anyone?? what's a girl to do? i dont want to move on...i want him back... =... (
2006-09-27 14:33:29 · update #1
First he's your best friend/potential bf BUT he says "I've got a gf" Now you can't stand to watch him "flirt w/other girls" He's a LIAR!
There's no gf. He used that to blow you off.
He's made his feelings clear. Now it's up to you.
Are you gonna be his doormat or go get a life w/out him in it??
2006-09-27 14:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We women want to beleive that we can be playas . but it never works out that way for some. He never made any promises, and it seems once he figured out that you were getting feelings, he backed off. If he's found someone else, all you can do is wait and see. In the meantime get on with your life. Don't go lookin for another guy, sometimes when we don't look is when they find us. At least he is being honest with you, even though i'm sure your hurting, its better you know the truth. Try and stay away from places he goes. I'm sure it will be difficult, but not impossible. If it was meant to be, he'll eventually come back to you. And hopefully by then, you can tell him to get lost.
2006-09-27 14:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't it bother you that he used you? The whole time you were together but not official and not talking to other people he had a girlfriend. Well it's no wonder you are bipolar when you talk to him, there's nothing there to hang onto, he's not that into you and you are only setting yourself up for drama on campus. Move on quickly, like pulling off a bandaid, the faster you do it the better.
2006-09-27 14:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL, I understand your pain, but YOU DESERVE BETTER than this! You deserve a wonderful man who will put as much into the relationship as you are. A relationship is mutual, and it looks like this guy got exactly what he wanted (***) and then he split. What a jerk, you deserve an amazing guy and someday he'll come along. Just be patient, God has a wonderful man in store for you, just pray about it and God bless you!! :)
2006-09-27 14:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on. He has already made it clear that he doesnt have the same feelings for you. He acts wierd towards you because he knows how you feel and knows he doesnt feel the same. Let him go.
2006-09-27 14:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sry hun. You need to move on. This might take some time so in the mean time, don't show your desperation, be as aloof as he is.
2006-09-27 14:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by get your nose out of the books 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T KNOW HOW OLD YOU ARE BUT IT SOUNDS AS IF HE WAS GETTING WHAT HE ONLY WANTED THE WHOLE TIME. DON'T LET HIM HAVE SEX AGAIN NO MATTER WHAT. HE WILL USE YOU OVER AND OVER AGAIN IF YOU LET HIM. MOVE ON BEFORE HE REALLY HURTS YOU. TAKE CARE.
2006-09-27 14:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start treating him like you are not attracted to him be friendly but that's it he thinks he already has you show him Different he'll come around if not set your sight's on someone else
good luck..
2006-09-27 14:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by your name here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'd all right just take deep breathes .If need be just try talking to him. If you don't want to then just try and forget him.
2006-09-27 14:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by karren b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u REALLY love him tell him how u feel!!~
2006-09-27 14:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by eyeheartbball03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋