ok i like this guy and hes a little bit older then me and i dont hav any classes w/ him but my friend sits next 2 him in spanish and she talkes 2 him and he cant hav a gf but all i want 2 do is b friends w/ him!! my friends said i should introduce myself but how?when?what do i say??? he is so cute he has gorgouse blue eyes pink cheecks white teeth w/ a gorgouse smile!!! oh i just melt when i c him!! and im so chicken!!! when it comes 2 boys and talking 2 them i cant talk and melt and im just clueless
2006-09-27 14:27:06 · 16 answers · asked by cassy c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i want 2 just b friends w/ him first!!
2006-09-27 14:31:16 · update #1
take a risk
there r millions of good looking guys
so if u screw up move on and correct your mistakes
2006-09-27 14:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jay Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, don't chase him. He's already said that he's not allowed to have a girlfriend. Just chill and wait for the opportunity to present itself then say "Hi, I'm [your name]. You could also mention that your friend sits next to him in Spanish. Whatever you do, don't try to chisel your way into his life. If he thinks your getting too close, you'll just end up chasing him away. You're just gonna have to take it real slow. Good luck sweetie!
2006-09-27 21:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jody B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... ok. i'm kind of on the other side of you. i can easily introduce myself and befriend guys. i end up telling them how i feel too sometime, which mind you, you shouldn't do unless 200% sure that he likes you and is just shy. but let's see... you've never met him? but your friend knows him? well... if your friend has a class with him and talks to him, meet him through her. say catch him walking through campus and have her ask him something about spanish. and make sure you're with your friend. smile. say hi. and just introduce yourself. oh and you can try the "did we have a class together before?" but that'll just sound like you're trying to pick him up rather than be friends. umm... what else? ok well.... so you introduce yourself when you're with your friend.... then omg! just say hi and ask what's up and stuff when you pass him in the hallway. you'll be fine. just chill!
2006-09-27 21:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by bs_branch729 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you habe any friends in common that you hang out with? If so go at it like that. If not maybe make it a point to run into him in the hall and smile and say hi every time. Or have your friend drop a hint for you, maybe invite him to hang out. Good luck!
2006-09-27 21:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by spelz83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your friend do the work. She should tell him "I got this wonderful friend you got to meet, you both would get along perfect." She should be sure that it comes across as friendly not romantic. She can suggest you three have lunch, and then slip out half way and let you two get to know each other.
2006-09-27 21:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by toobadfaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u saying that u just want to be friends with him than honey than you are lying to yourself.
just go up to him and say hi and introduce yourself. if he is worth your time he will be a gentleman and if not he will be a jerk and that will determine if you should even be friends with him. but dont let anyone give you the jeebies ;o) you are a strong girl and you shouldnt be afraid to talk to people even if they are beautiful boys. heheh
2006-09-27 21:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by RACHEL B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel ..its hard when you have a big crush on someone ...especially not knowing how to act..next time you see him just say...my friend has a class with you said you are so funny..or some thing like that..before you know it you will both be talking ..you can use your friend a s bait and im sure she wont mind... try it it could work!! goood luck!!
2006-09-27 21:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass him a note with your number and a little note telling him that you want to be friends.
2006-09-27 21:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by CHEYENNE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in direct approach go and intoduce your self try to come close Good luck!
2006-09-27 21:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by janwiseusman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have your friend go up to him first and start talking to him while you walk up and say "Hi, Im Cassy!"
2006-09-27 21:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋