It seems these days that its impossible to find a sweet down to earth girl. Half the women are so stuck up with this air of superiority, that I;m trash comapred to them it makes me sick. And of course the other half seems to be slutty whores who would sodimize and inanitmate object if they were paid. I know I'm generalizing but it seems that this is the only variety girls come in these days. Has being a good sweet girl really gone out the door?
2006-09-27 14:25:02 · 13 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 19 in college, I like to think I'm a nice guy but it seems that whenever I show kindness it always gets abused and thrown back in my face, but I try not to be too bitter
2006-09-27 14:32:33 · update #1
Being a sweet and nice girl hasn't gone out the door but it is harder to find now a days. The nice girls feel like we have to have a wall up to protect ourselves. Just like it is hard for you to find the nice girl it is hard for us to find that nice guy that won't walk all over us and be mean to us because we are sweet and nice. It is a horrible way to generalize things but it is the way things seem to be lately...
2006-09-27 14:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly not- you're probably just reacting to the image of the "ideal girl" that is so often projected by the media these days. Although many, if not the majority of girls try to live up to this image, (by acting pretentious and stupid, dressing in slutty clothing, and acting like prostitutes in general,) do not think for even a second that ALL girls are like that. I know I certainly am not, and I know plenty of girls who are intelligent, down-to-earth, and, quite honestly, far more "human" than the others. Don't give up- they're, (we're,) out there, just take a moment to look past the surface, and keep searching!!
2006-09-27 14:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Orange Roses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i feel your pain. i try to be a sweet girl, not a slut. the door swings both ways, though: to me it seems that there are no nice guys out there, only jerks and complete hopless cases (im not talking about what the popular bitches would call "nerds" im talking about guys that think its not necessary to SHOWER. EVER. yeah...) are you in school? if so, look for the girl sitting in the corner of the room not talking to anyone, but is pretty anyway...just really shy. there will be one and she will be sweet.
and all we want is a nice sweet good looking guy that will hold open a door but doesn't want premarital sex.
2006-09-27 14:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good question. I've been having a realy hard time finding anyone myself. I always seem to run into those kind of girls. Talk about sluttly rich chicks that alls they care about is the size of you're check book.
2006-09-27 14:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by RICHARD V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound kind of desperate.. sweet girls are everywhere and don't go for guys like you. I meet them all the time. Good luck. I have to say.. I do have to say.. there are more stuckup White girls than any other ethnic group.
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2006-09-27 14:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking in the wrong places.... There are lots of ""US"" sweet and good ones out there.... Question is... Where are the Good Men... That want to treat us like ladies.... Instead of the ones you just mentioned ???
2006-09-27 14:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by levita45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you come across any girls that don't have tattoos, smoke, drink beer, yack on a cell phone or boss other people around? I don't know where they are. I'll stick with my adult entertainment, thank you very much.
Cheaper, no STD's, you're in control, no demands, no judgements, no betrayals.
2006-09-27 14:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by TarKettle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there might still be a handful of them out there. But the two groups you mention seem to outnumber them greatly.
2006-09-27 14:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no im a sweet down 2 earth chick
2006-09-27 14:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by Need help!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if your attitude changes you will find a nice girl. A nice girl is out there ~ but, a HARSH attitude will turn her away.
2006-09-27 14:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋