Plz dont be offended..I am just being honest:
after reading the other guy's post, I felt the same. But it's on the other side.
I am a good looking guy, some girls think I am really cute, some think
i am "hot." I dont care...but SO MANY girls would just say I am a Player before they even get to know me...and worst..They spread the word around...making every girl thinks I am a player.
but anyone knows me a bit knows I am such a one-girl kinda guy, and I get made fun of for taht by my buds...
ladies, y some of u guys so judgemental..?
2006-09-27 14:19:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You obviously got stereotyped as a "player" for a reason. Maybe you should date a girl for a long period of time. Be in a commit ed relationship & then maybe people will change thier mind about you.
2006-09-27 14:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by circe459 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the girls you want to get to know aren't the ones that you should be interested in . Do you think that there is any chance that you are doing exactly what you say the girls are doing ?
I've been around a lot longer than you honey and I am truly trying to help you . Think about what kind of girls attract you and go from there , maybe tone it down with the I'm good looking and don't hate me for that attitude . People actually send out energy that others can pickup on without a word spoken between them .
If you are being an outwardly kind concideriate guy , that is who you will attract . If you are genuine and real same thing .
Ok thats enough from you probably get it by now . Good Luck !
2006-09-27 14:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why some girls are that way. I mean some guys are players but you can't judge a book by its cover. If you're hot you're hot but that doesn't mean you are a player. I am a girl and people say I am a player and I go out with people for 4 months in the least. I think people just need to lay off it. some guys might say you are a player cuz they are jealous of how hot you supposably are. screw them. show everyone you're not a player. forget about the rest of them.
2006-09-27 14:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by bg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's because they want you but knows they can't get you for some reason so they say those things to make it look like your a player when your not hoping since they don't have a chance with you maybe the girl that would have a chance would back off if she really believed what the other girls said..I believe they really would like to be with you and can't , or maybe by you being real good looking spooks them into thinking you wouldn't be true..
2006-09-27 14:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is not judgemental. You wouldn't want to date a girl that just takes someone else's word about your character. Date the female that is willing to get to know you inside and out.
2006-09-27 14:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by curious51867 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE u Kidding? Look at the fashion mags. The advertising on TV, and the clothes in the shop windows. And the make-up and the "Beautiful"!!!
It's very, very sad. Imagine all the people who are not "HOT" on the outside, but maybe their "HOTTER" on the inside. Plastic surgery can only do so much.
2006-09-27 14:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls assume since you're soooo hot or cute or whatever, that you have many because of that. You just have to show us somehow that ur not. You must not show that ur a one-girl guy for people to think you're not.
2006-09-27 14:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by CourtneyGM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always get to know tha guy before those girls u hang out with are just stupid cause if u have a personality and good looks thats even better than a guy with just good looks u shouldnt care what people think cause their just ruining u r life cause ur listining to their crap.
2006-09-27 14:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Marissa R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they look at a good looking guy and cant handle the fact they cant have him and get jealous that's why. if a plain girl comes to you i bet you wouldn't get to know her first....am i right.? don't you go for looks with a girl.? if so, that means yr judgmental to.
2006-09-27 14:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋