I used to have a boyfriend. He had asked me to a dance and I had said yes. No we broke up because I like another guy and he thinks we are still going. I don't want to hurt him but I had already told him that we would jsut be going as friends and he said he was fine with that but now he thinks we are going as more. I will be dancing with other guys there. How do I tell him that we are not going together in a nice way? Thanks.
2006-09-27 14:13:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Smile, We are not going together. Sorry.
2006-09-27 14:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the nice way would be to find a suitable replacement. You agreed to go with him. He's on the line socially and probably financially. If you back out you really ought to pay for half of the date and if you go with him you REALLY ought to spend the dance with him. Anything less is being really pretty horrible to him. You made your bed, lay in it for a night.
2006-09-27 21:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never have told him you would be going with him as friends. It usually takes a little while to get over a relationship before you can be friends. You should have, right away told him you weren't going with him at all. If you care about him enough, that you don't want to hurt his feelings, go with him and be his date. It wouldn't be all bad to spend a night with someone that you used to like.
2006-09-27 21:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is a great friend and you promise to say hi to him when you see him at the dance.
(I'm implying here, don't GO with him to the dance. He will take that as you "meaning" that you still like him.)
2006-09-27 21:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by Blackdiamondgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him ur not going out n e more end of story and u'll be dancing with other guys at the dance and he will just have to deal with it (u can try to put it politely but soemtimes guys think ur a pushover if u dont say it rite)
2006-09-27 21:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by mel w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that the dances doesn't mean anything yall just going as friends and that you plan on dancing with other people and if he get mad just tell him ( BOY YOU AIN"T MY BOYFRIEND) or just tell him you found somebody else to go with
2006-09-27 21:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by lindsey_sndrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to tell him you not going "together* remind him that you two broke up and that you are his friend and that you want to be going as his friend and no more and if he wanted to go as more say sorry because youre not together anymore so thats all its going to be (ive done that)
2006-09-27 21:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him somthing like,you think (insert boy's name here) will like my dress for the dance i hope he asks me to dance. When he asks what about us say just fiends remember?
2006-09-27 21:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have an honest, straightforward talk, as long as you believe honestly that you haven't done any wrong.
2006-09-27 21:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say we are not going together
2006-09-27 21:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋