my boyfriend says that im not treating him right, how i never call him, or make an effort in the relationship. how can i make it up to him and prove to him that im the best gf ever= and please dont say sex or anything physical cuz im not talking about that. im talking about words, and emotional actions. i call him, but i will admit that in the past few days weve both been rly busy and have caught e.o online or thru texting and just didnt call. i wana fix my relationship but i feel like im always the one who has to fix it, and its always my fault and that i suck. please help me, thanks
2006-09-27 14:08:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him your sorry and let's "start over". You have been busy but have never forggotten him. Tell him something like your to sexy to forget.
2006-09-27 14:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All relationships have its ups and downs. A relationship is a two-way street. There should be an almost equal amount of give and take. You shouldn't bear all the weight on your shoulders. Maybe you should make yourself more available, if it doesn't work, try giving each other space for a while. If your relationship doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world for you. There are many fish in the sea, and I am willing to bet that you will get a better catch (and that will make your ex-boyfriend VERY jealous).
2006-09-27 14:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Vino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did not understand you, he did not deserve you. i'd evaluate my existence to be too advantageous to waste on this variety of jerk if I were you. And it really is only 4 months so it is going to take time to heal, in spite of the indisputable fact that it is going to heal in case you enable your self. imagine about those who love you. stay far off from each and each of the pieces that remind you of him. Take a visit and flow out someplace with sturdy acquaintances and relatives. locate some new purpose or a clean pastime. Cry out all you want & take this as a gaining understand-how of on your existence and flow ON... do not imagine about entering into yet another relationship at this aspect coz we modify into weak after we are in choose of emotional help. supply your self a at the same time as to quiet down.
2016-11-24 23:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you are saying, could he be a manipulator?
"i feel like im always the one who has to fix it"
Baaaad habit to break, and you have BOTH been busy right? Jeez, he sounds like a freak I used to date. Drained me mentally and emotionally until I just walked away from it. Don't let anyone do that to you.
2006-09-27 14:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by mickeyg1958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u suck??? well thats a good thing... just do that twice a day (once in the morning and once at night) and you'll B the best GF ever!!!
2006-09-27 14:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by mrbubbachowpuss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats easy.get a new bf who works same shift and you can spend time togeather.it takes 2 to make mistakes in a marriage .
2006-09-27 14:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by dona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey trust me i have had many boyfriends and they all say that once and a while. like my most resent one said that he would breakup with me if i diden't stop saying stuff behind his back. shhhhhh!! but you got to tell him i will break up with u and if he really likes you he will jump and stop being such a retard.
2006-09-27 14:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
suprise him, the best thing to do is leave a basket at his doorstep (fill it with his favorite candies, movie tickets whatever you think he would like) and put a note in it explaining how much you care...
2006-09-27 14:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by shelly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should seriously think about going to see a shrink!
2006-09-27 14:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow days...
i haven't talk to my gf in two weeks
2006-09-27 14:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by michiganglass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋