My boyfriend lives 20 minutes away and goes to a different school (an all guys school). I've been with him for about 2 months maybe a bit less, and he never treats me like a girlfriend. We are down to seeing each other once a week, he only talks on the phone with me like 5 minutes a day and never does anything unpredictable or really cute for me. All my ex's did all those sweet, cute, little things for me but he does nothing. It's like i'm more of a friend or a toy than an actual GF. Help! What do i do?
2006-09-27 13:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by onlyubeautiful0713 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont let him treat u like that u need to tell him straight up what u want in the relationship if he doesnt do the stuff u asked then he isnt the guy for u
2006-09-27 14:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Marissa R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what do you really want him to do??!?!?!
I know this is weird but maybe you should stick around. It's really up to you. I can relate to your bf also. I mean at one time I couldn't treat my gf like I wanted to but I just had to be real in school to get a good job and than the fun can begin. Anyways, after I graduate for college my gf already left me and now I have a great job and I feel sorry that I can't enjoy my money with her. I have a nice car and almost on my way of getting a house. See where I'm coming from.
2006-09-27 14:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you should just break up with him. He's not worth it if he treats you more like a friend. Or just talk to him if you want him still and he will probably understand and you will be treated like your ex's did to you before.
2006-09-27 13:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put your life in perspective. Life is not all about you and life does not revolve around you. God loves you very much and wants you to know Him. Because you have done nothing but sinned and broken all his commandments throughout your life you need to repent of your sins. Jesus died for you on the cross taking your sins and the sins of the whole world so that He would bridge that gap between sin and God. God hates sin and must judge sin. Without Jesus Christ you can not know God. Please, repent of your sins and trust Jesus to save you on Judgment Day.
2006-09-27 14:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a good look at your relationship. Ask yourself if this what you want for the rest of your life? Then you have just answered your own question. Good luck.
2006-09-27 14:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi!!! look this happens alot.. if he treats u like a toy, that means he really does not care much about u... so try to move on and just talk him about this.. tell him how feel, maybe he will start understanding ur feelings... good luck!!!!!!!!!:-
2006-09-27 13:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Blah_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be sneaking around. Your guys dont sound like a happy couple. Let him go.
2006-09-27 14:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats the case .. then that means only one thing .
he`s not interested in u anymore. so i suggested that u break up with him immediately and be freeeeee =]
2006-09-27 13:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by silent♥em0ti0n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just not that into you-move on before he breaks your heart.
2006-09-27 13:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him **** you hill want to see you more then
2006-09-27 13:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by nate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋