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My son is 12--will be 13 in a few months--and he's been asking questions lately concerning the changes in his body such as his balls dropping and the hair that is popping up. I know that soon I will find Hustler magazines under his mattress and an economy size bottle pf lotion on his nightstand. He's mentioned a few little girls at school with big boobs--I know that soon he will start asking questions about sex. Any suggestions on how to broach the subject? I could let my "ho" for a sister explain things to him but I don't want him thinking women are objects......his dad would be no help since he hasn't had any since Moses was a baby and he was a one pump chump at that......

2006-09-27 13:53:59 · 16 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I think the best solution here is porn. You won't even have to say a word, simply press play on the VCR and walk away...when you come back an hour later, he'll have gotten the message.

2006-09-27 13:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Hey, you've got a start - your son came to u first - which is great! Whenever he asks you a ? answer him honestly & simply. When u get the sex ?, don't forget to remind him of the dangers of not using a condom (diseases for life) & that girls R tricky & may try to get pregnant by him as a way to keep - so keep it wrapped! Explain to him that he is starting to grow up into a man & that's what happens when you become older. Good idea - don't let the "ho" explain it. It's good that he can come to u, if u want him to continue to do so as he gets older, keep an open mind & don't be judgemental.

2006-09-27 14:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by tanner 7 · 0 0

If is 12 and depending on his school he should have ad health orientation or as it used be called back in the day, "Sex ed" Just tell him the urges he's getting are normal and that it's okay if he in shower to massage the manly muscle of happiness. Keep it straight forward and don't talk down to him. talk to him like an adult

2006-09-27 14:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well your son is normal...but another normal thing is...when he stops asking questions...it's because he thinks he has the answers... be wary...

Since you obviously have a computer...also reset your parental controls...he has probably already find all the good sites...my son did at 12... he's now 22 and still I find xxx vidclips in history...lol. Thats what you have to look forward to.... Bon Chance Madame!

2006-09-27 14:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by john s 3 · 0 0

this is the turning point for guys...when they become teenagers. you should expect that he will ask questions soon about sex. he will be curious. sit him down once he starts asking and explain things as best as you can. you will probally want to plan out what you're going to say before hand.....dont wait very long or you will regret it when he learns about it from the guys in his grade. my mom never gave me a sex talk and i learned about it from my friends which wasnt good for me or my development as a teenager.

2006-09-27 14:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0 0

be honest about sex, tell him the truth, it will be better if he hears it from you then from hustler or on the streets. Kids make up some pretty far out idea on sex. Tell him the truth

2006-09-27 14:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0 0

hey if u dont answer he will go somewere else to get the answers and that may not be the best way for him to find out the answer to some of the questions u were telling about

2006-09-27 13:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by cterp123 2 · 0 0

find him a male you can trust or get him some educational reading materials so he knows he is not alone. it doesn't sound like you are mature enough to take it on alone, but it will happen nonetheless. either he learns it the right way, or he will treat women the way men treat you.

2006-09-27 13:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by amberlyn_storey 2 · 0 0

I wasnt really told at all, i jus found out by myself as i grew older be it from friends, health class etc.. But, i think you should talk to him about this, he will prolly learn more as he gets older anyways.

2006-09-27 13:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if he happens to bring up the subject just tell him flat out this is how it works. and especially tell him the bad parts about doing it with someone. if you tell him everything he will most likely forget it.

2006-09-27 14:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan T 1 · 0 0

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