i dated this guy and he make everything better and then we just broke up without really a waring or anything. Now that i found someone that treats me with repect and everything is me he has decided to come back and he know i still care because i let it slip now i have to choose between which one i need and want someone help me
2006-09-27 13:51:32 · 5 answers · asked by imunbroken4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They call them EX's for a reason b/c they were! Let old things pass away and let the new blossom. As a rule of thumb, once you let go of someone, don't look back, remember Lot's wife ( a Bible story) she turned back and turned into a pillar of salt. Are you ready to be salt or to be honey right where you are? It's your choice, choose wisely!! Besides they always want you when they can't have you!!!! Stay with the new man, try happiness for a while!
2006-09-27 14:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Ladeshug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just love punishing yourself, don't you? Think about it....this ex of yours up and left you with no reason or warning. He will do it again and again, hurting you every time. He's back only because he thinks you still have the hots for him. You just can't stand to be happy and secure with a guy that respects you and treats you right, can you?? Stop abusing yourself, kick ex-boyfriend to the curb.
2006-09-27 21:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though we live in very tight-ruled times, let me ask hypothetically, if they fought a duel like big-whiged noblemen, would you take the winner and be done with it? Probably not. His neediness doesn't add to his qualifications for comparing the two; if your replacement is giving you more of what you want, in all facets of life, keep him. But if you like vice and want to drink in each others' pity like wine and have teary-eyed love sessions, then maybe you can have that pain-pleasure mix, but that's only if you like drama
2006-09-27 21:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by Nate L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to choose? you are young you should date both. Just make sure you are honest with both. Your ex probably came back because his ego was threatened. The grass is always greener.
2006-09-27 20:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by amberlyn_storey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him.
2006-09-27 20:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋