The first thing they really notice when meeting a woman is her body - and then they judge her - based on her chest size, body shape, skin tone/clarity, etc... WHY?!?! can't they just see us for what we are and find us beautiful?
2006-09-27 13:48:34 · 34 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And you think that women do not judge other people based on appearance? Please!
How many time have you heard girls making fun of a guy because he has ugly shoes, has dirty fingernails, or she doesn't like his belt or fashion sense?
How come girls never stop to get to know a guy before they judge him?
2006-09-27 13:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's kind of an unfair question, don't you think? That's like asking "Why are women such gold diggers?" Not all women are gold diggers, just like not all men are pigs. Now, don't get me wrong, a lot of men are. Probably a bigger proportion than gold diggers. That's not what I have a problem with. The problem I have is the generalizations that always take place in discussions. It is always "Why are men such pigs?" when it should be "Why are some men pigs?"
But I digress. Not all men are pigs. Not even most men are pigs. Some are. But chances are, the other guys don't even like the pigs. I know I don't.
Anyway, I hope you find a guy who isn't a jackass. I know it took me a while to find a girl who wasn't a gold digger. But I did, and it's pretty nice.
2006-09-27 14:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by deusdragonex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are pigs just like all women are wh0res. Right? Maybe if females would stop dressing like prostitutes, we'd stop treating them like such. If all you do is advertise yourself as a piece of meat, that's the way I'm going to treat you. We see you for what you are all right. Show more belly down to your pubes and shorts running into your asss crack with breast implants exposed and wrapped in a ski tight see-through blouse. Sounds like a person who has no self respect to me. So ask for none from me!
2006-09-27 13:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by beefstrokinoff39 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women like to know their beautiful and that is why guys tend to pay more attention to that, and a girls body is naturally appealing. a womans body can show child bearing traits which are the breasts and hips. a guy now adays only needs to be able to provide (have a good job) and most of the time looks on a guy are not too important when it comes to a job so a woman looks for personality.
2006-09-27 14:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by crflexjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am surprised that you hadn't heard of this because it explains all.
Men have two heads and only enough blood to operate one head at a time... guess which one they pick?
Sadly I get blamed for the bad decisions of all other men... it's not fair.... I do my thinking in advance in order to improve my chance of making the right decisions later....lol.
Actually I think a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, but the one that peaks my interest is the one with a beautiful heart and mind... Our looks fade over the years...but the heart and mind intensify with time... thats why I think with the right head...but most guys just don't get it.
2006-09-27 13:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by john s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is natural and instinctive. And don't tell me when you see a guy you don't judge him the same way.
All men and women--upon first meeing a member of the opposite sex (or same sex if they swing that way)--will judge them on appearances straight off. (Because that is the only thing you have before you get to know the other person). The guy/girl is a keeper if what he/she first judges on appearances alone doesn't daunt them or negatively color their opinion when they get to know the other person.
It's not guys vs. girls here, it's immature vs. mature.
2006-09-27 13:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most are, but I promise, not all....I dealt with this problem a lot the past few years....im almost 22....ive got a very large chest (38DDD) and a equally nice booty....and whenever guys would approach me, they wouldnt look at my face, even though im very cute, they just wanted to check out my booty and chest....guys like stuff like that....as do girls, we just seem to control ourselves better. If they are looking at your junk first off, they are probably up for no good.
2006-09-27 13:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thousands of years of evolution.There is a science called evolutionary psychology ..Read up on it. Men arent the only ones who make descisions based on thousands of years of evolution,.Not to overgeneralize this but who do the realy good looking women go for most of the time ?Do they go for poor homeless men or , competent men capable of being providers.
2006-09-27 13:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who the freak we are ALL pigs , maybe your town or city is full of prejudgeing pig men, try moving . Cuz my gf is awsome I dont care if her chest isnt as good as the other girls or if shes white burnete and im 100% mexicano
2006-09-27 13:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge men; we are not all alike. I have never been in a relationship. I leave women alone, and your question certainly does not encourage me to pursue a woman. My guess is that you had a bad day, and it involved a man.
2006-09-27 14:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by TarKettle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋