i am in 8th grade and have never had a boyfriend! i have recently just lost alot of weight and thought that would help but it hasn't. its not like i turn down guys that ask me out its that they dont ask me out. i am just dying to have a boyfriend, and its hard to have all my friends talk about there boyfriends. Is this normal not to have ever had a boyfriend?!?!?!
... and if you have any suggestions on getting a boyfriend please tell !!!
2006-09-27 13:47:44 · 30 answers · asked by sarah m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you'll get a boyfriend. You'll get a wonderful sweet boy who loves you to death for everything you are. =]
The only catch is that you can't be look at every guy you see, desprately trying to find out if he's the one. Cause when you least expect it, he'll come and sweep you off your feet.
Not all girls get boyfriends in 8th grade. And lots of them aren't good boyfriends, they're just boyfriends that girls have to say they have boyfriends. Its normal, and its fine not to have one. The right somebody out there, so don't think for a moment that he won't find you! <3
2006-09-27 13:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by kachelsachel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never had a boyfriend either. I do everything and it seems that I will never get one. But then i realize that I'm in 8th grade(I'm serious I'm in 8th grade also) and I have my hole life to get a boyfriend a love someone. So I wish that I have a boyfriend but I go through my days without one and I've made it through and so will you. Just be yourself and one day a guy will see that you are beautiful on the outside and the inside and it will feel so good. The right guy is just around the corner, I promise!
2006-09-27 20:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to not have a boyfriend. Actually, until you are sexually active you should not have a boy friend since they are already sexually in great need. Almost no 8th grade girls had boy friends when I was there. Those that did simply lost them again and again. Too much drama for absolutely nothing. When you start giving head boy friends will come. That is a certainty. No need to be in a rush.
2006-09-27 20:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your an eighth grader you have plenty of time don't rush it and don't feel out of place because your friends have boyfriends and you don't.your time will come.enjoy your life first,you have a lot of places to go and a lot of things to do before you want to get tied down with a boyfriend you will meet someone when the time is right,don't try so hard there are more important things in life right now than having a boyfriend .get your education and don't let a boyfriend deter you from that.you will be alright just take your time. good luck pete
2006-09-27 20:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun. im a freshman this yr and SAME BOAT except i havent lost weight (but i am bigger lol...not skin and bones AT ALL but yeah it sux lol) anyways....the point is there is nothing wrong w/ u at all! believe me. and i mean last yr i was the super shy girl and stuff but this yr i am a little more outgoing but not by much and just a little more out of my shell and talkative and i mean even one of the jocks and the guy i like are talking to me! so i mean things can suck one year or one day and be great the next. so just try to be more confident, as hard as it can be and just talk to guys more...but dont say u like them. try to be friends first (and gahh yes i know i hate hearing that too cuz it takes too long and i know but it really is best) and then u know who u r dealing w/ before u r tangled up w/ them in a complicated mess. guys r so simple that we over analyze them. good luck! message me if u want and we can talk. i posted Q's JUST LIKE THIS last yr and over the summer....but ive changed. i hope u do too cuz where u r isnt a good place to be. good luck!
2006-09-27 21:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only in the 8th grade my dear, you still have a long future ahead of you.
You'll find that special someone someday. There's no need to rush into things.
Dont try looking for "him" you'll just end up hurting yourself..
Just live life to the fullest, eventually he'll just walk right into your heart.
And dont feel the need to wear "slutty" clothes either, I'm sure your really beautiful inside and out..Just let time do it's part..You'll be glad you waited.
2006-09-27 20:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, I'm in 9th grade and I have never had a boyfriend. I always thought I would get one in highschool, but I'm still waiting. Just be happy with yourself and do the things you love, and hopefully the right guy will find you. Good luck :]
2006-09-28 22:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sonya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only in 8th grade. You have the rest of your life to have boyfriends. Don't be too desperate or needy for one because you could get hurt. Just live your life and they will come in out of your life. one day you might even say, "I don't want a BF right now!"
2006-09-27 20:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by L♥G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol calm yourself! my 1st bf was in 6th grade. 8th grade is an ok year to have a boyfriend. my suggestion though would be to wait until your outta middle school and know when drama is dead for you. then get one. im sure that you will get one eventually. loosing weight does help. it boosts ur confidence.
my only suggestion on how to get a guy is to become friends with alot of them and just talk to them! just wait it out. your bound to get one soon!
2006-09-27 20:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me there is no rush... i never got a bf till 10th grade . If u really need one, find a boy u have a crush on and just talk to him and ask him if he wants to hang out with you sometime but make sure you bring your friends along so it isnt awkard and stuff. But i would say there is no rush at all
2006-09-27 20:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Noelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋