the thing is that i haven't tried that position before and I'm clueless as to what I have to do since I'm the one in control...any advice?..Thks!
2006-09-27 13:30:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start off slowly until you feel comfortable with the position. Wriggle around on his penis until you get into a position that you like (could take a while, so relax and explore). Once you find something that feels really good, just go nuts!
Yes, tell your bf you're not sure what to do, and ask for lots of feedback. Usually when you find something good, it will work for him too.
Oh, don't lean back too much because he will feel like he's being snapped in half - not good.
2006-09-27 14:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax.....for a starter.
If you are on top you decide how to move to satisfy you... it will have the same affect on him as if you were on the bottom.... when you are on top it's all about you... yes you do the work but you get to decide what hits your hot buttons
Then just enjoy the ride...and so will he...
I am older and have had more lovers than I care to admit but a woman on top is wonderful because I can see her face, touch her and know that she is satisfied....
Enjoy yourself..... some men are confused, they think it's about them but it's really about her in that position... there is deeper penetration, you decide what fels good and you control your own orgasm.... and he thinks I really satisfied her... let him believe that but you'll know the truth.
2006-09-27 13:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by john s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl get some arthritis pills for the knees and ride sally ride. You get on top, get control, and ride that thing like your life depended on it. I find it more pleasurable if I rise off the penis completly, and sit down on it easy, it makes the ride more tantalizing! When you know your partner is going to come, rise up and down hard and fast, buckin' like a bronco bull!
2006-09-27 13:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise would be to tell him just what you said here. That you are unsure what to do since you've never done it before.
That way it may take some presure off of you. Even though your in control, there is still the "two" of you.....
2006-09-27 13:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just climb aboard, and go to town. He'll enjoy the view, you'll enjoy being able to set the pace.
2006-09-27 13:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey...when he asks you that you lay him flat on his back and straddle him with your legs. Line up your pu*** with his c*** and ride him like a bucking bronco. Really give it to him good and you will enjoy it immensely
2006-09-27 13:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is one of the best positions for you.. as like you said your in control.. of how deep position inside how fast you like it.. and how long he can stay up... go for it.. have fun as it will bring you a wonderful orgasm.. honest
2006-09-27 13:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what comes natural,having the control is good,you get the feelings where you want,
2006-09-27 13:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by matthehat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations your well on your way to becoming an American slut...pat yourself on the back...keyword you used bf meaning it wont last...lol
2006-09-27 13:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by stupidreplier1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah juss go right a head ask him want he wants you to do its not that to be in control
2006-09-27 13:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by KINZY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋