2006-09-27 13:28:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Hi vidya!These are some of the toughest decisions and periods that we have to go through.Theres only one way out.You have to believe in your parents and just try and pursue them into letting you complete your education.If this approach doesent work, try to get your fiance involved.Ask him whether he is ready to let her continue education in the same college or not.Even if this doesnt work(WHich usually doensnt happen as parents love their child and guys,though can be brainless on such situations, are quite alright while taking decisions in these matters),then just believe in yourself and take the best decision on which your heart and your mind both agree.And as for studying, you cant do that until you have solved that problem.so just look for the solution right now so that there wont be any tension.
2006-09-27 13:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by sagar_apte2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Vidya,
It depends on how will it be after your marriage. If you will have to cook and take care of all the things at home, it'll be hell while studying engineering. May be you already know that engineering is more into logic and you need a clear mind to absorb the concepts.
But if your husband is very rich and (of course that is not the best qualification for him to marry an eng. graduate.) he has all the will to support you in your studies (I mean by taking care of all the work at home-may be getting servants), then there is a chance.
From your question I understand that you are not prepared for the marriage. So I think you better let your parents understand it and wait till you find some one that suits you.
Have a nice time!!
2006-09-27 20:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by Thusantha H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "Q" is "how to continue my study".
The best way to deal with it is take paper and pen write this questions down and answer them truthfully.
Questions.
Do I want to please my parents by marring this boy?
Do I really like the boy?
Do I wish that this was my boy friend? (I am thinking that you are liking some one else)
Can I postpone the marriage and still keep engagement until I finish the schooling?
Must I discuss this and schooling with my husband to be?
I say you must.
Does my school allowes married or pregnant student to attend the school?
...
...
.
List any other things that needs answering before marriage and iron them out before marriage. I do not know how old you are(but I guess you are twenty something) but to day no matter where you stay, no one is allowed by law to pressure any one in to a marriage.
Show this to your parents and husband to be.
2006-09-27 22:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on your studies first. You've come a long way and it's obviously something that's important to you. You can always postpone your wedding or arrange something suitable to your needs. Talk it over with your parents, especially if it's a cultural thing because I know that there is a lot of respect involved there, but most of all, do what YOU want. Prioritize.
2006-09-27 20:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by Chrispy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss your priorities with your husband to be. Let him know that you want to study after marriage. If he objects and you truly desire to achieve academic success then simply refuse the proposal.
After all, it's your life. You are in-charge...I know sometimes parents are eccentric. Just let your parents and husband to be know what your dreams/goals in life are.
2006-09-27 23:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by 5abiKudi_USA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to continue to your study online
If you know Turkish
try
www.yesevi.net
2006-09-27 22:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by iyiogrenci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi vidhya,
if u don't want to marry, u tell ur parents.& u can tell them u r not mature for the marriage. u r not responsible of it in this age.& u know also today it is totallly change the mentality of marriage. i think that this age is not proper for marriage.study must imp for ur future.then u can do everything.so its up to u.
2006-09-27 22:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you survive this biggest tragedy in your life,only then you can talk about continuing study.I feel sorry for you and wish you all the best.
2006-09-27 20:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after study and get in job you can married. otherwise life will spoil
2006-09-27 21:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for 1 . . don't get married unless YOU are ready for it . . .
2006-09-27 20:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋