I am 13 1/2, 5'3, in 8th grade, and creepily flat-chested. Should I stuff? How am I supossed to get a boyfriend?
2006-09-27 13:28:40 · 20 answers · asked by OMG. It's Laura. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Late bloomer
2006-09-27 13:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by fall 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
M dear, do not stuff, they have some cute bras that come with a bit of filling inside, to make you natural. You will in time fill up naturally. Don't hurry things too much. As far as a boyfriend, he should like you the way you are, if he doesn't is because he wants to just touch you in places that are not right. At your age have a boy friend not a boyfriend. When girls your age have too many boyfriends they get called real bad names. My daughter knows a girl in school that has had 4 boyfriends in a period of 2 1/2 months, and you should here what they call her, my daughter is in the 7h grade. I know you don't want to be call those ugly names. Stay sweet and you will see boys will come to you easily when the time is right.
2006-09-27 20:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. I am flat-chested myself and I really don't care. Yeah that maybe all guys look at, but don't stuff. Guys can tell. I did that back in the 8th grade and I try to forget it. In time guys will come to like you. If you look cute and have great taste, guys will come after you. Just remember, all flat-chested people stay together!
2006-09-27 20:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by amsurfgoddess202 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well.. My friend in my grade is flatchested. Maybe you havent reached puberty yet. So in your school you have to have boobs to get a boyfriend? Personality is most important and only a little bit of looks. Dont be so worried it's not the end of the world. You porbably wont think this now, but seriously.
2006-09-27 20:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't worrie i'm flat chested too. it sucks but i have a boyfriend and he likes me just the way i am. what he doesn't know is that i use to stuff. i'm telling u now...................DON'T STUFF!!!!!!!! girls know so what happend is they told everyone in the scholl and i was so mad that i would go to school and i would hide in the bathroom stalls. just so i couldn't be made fun of. i would check in with the teachers and i would ask if i could go to the bathroom and i would never come back. the n i got brave and that is when this guy came up to me and asked me out. i was so happy.
2006-09-27 20:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by emma 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since when do you have to have breasts to get a boyfriend. Women are beautiful in every shape and size. Don't stuff your bra. Don't ever try to be something that your not. It was about your age , that I went from a AA to a DD . So, who knows what might just pop out. Good Luck.
Try some exercises to get them going. "we must we must we must build up our busts. we fear we fear it might go to our rear" I wish i would have done a few less of those exercises. Your mom can probably remember them from gym class. ask her to show you.
2006-09-27 20:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by penelope 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your in 8th grade. Guys are shallow a.ssholes and when you get older I promise that you will grow boobs. Even if you dont, the right guy for you wouldnt care. Only shallow guys care about stuff like that and you dont want a shollow guy. As long as your a nice girl I promise guys will grow up and see you. You can be beutiful without having boobs.
2006-09-27 20:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by ¡Free Love! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is so superficial. Work on your character and personality. Also take a look at Gweneth Paltrow and Kate Hudson. Both of them are quite flat-chested but it didn't stop them.
2006-09-27 20:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Just be a wonderful human being and you will find someone who actually might treat you like a human being rather than a piece of meat or a trophy.
2006-09-27 20:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by lovingdaddyof2 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why be something you are not? What do you think is going to happen when you have dated him for a few years and he finds out that they were not real? Just be yourself girl. Not all guys are out for the big boobs. It is better to be ated for who you are then to be liked for who you aren't.
2006-09-27 20:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋