Isn't the true value of our Love not a matter of how many batteries we have on the shelf, but how many we have plugged into relationships?
Doesn't fear simply keep other people from plugging their batteries into our relationships?
2006-09-27 13:13:52 · 6 answers · asked by bobkgin 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No.
Love is power, Love is life, Love is magnetic.
When you focus on loving, loving people are attracted into your life and attracted to you.
When you focus on hating you repel everyone who isn't angry and attract those who are.
The value of love is in how happy you are.
If your love is 'on a shelf' then you aren't focusing on it, you're trying to collect it, and since love isn't a thing you are doomed to disappointment.
Forget relationships. Anytime you feel frustrated or impatient, focus all of your attention on "I love being alive!" as you inhale and "I thank life!" as you exhale for as many breaths as you can count.
Before you know it you will have many relationship chances and the task will be choosing one that fits you and that will help you become happier.
Fear is hatred that so lacks confidence that your emotion (hatred) tries to hide from you its true nature.
Above all, with emotions there is no 'plugging'. Don't use metaphors involving things for emotions, because emotions are processes, and processes take focus, take attention, repeatedly over the long term.
2006-09-27 13:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by raxivar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have (liked) the same woman for 18 yrs( but her common sense is out in the ozone) Yea, love is kinda like a battery because if pluggeed into a toy it goes pretty quick Love is like a battery charger, as long as it is plugged in it isn't discharging ,only being charged up
2006-09-27 20:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean that love is an action, not just a feeling, then I agree with you. Actions do speak louder than words and real love acts for the best of its object.
Love is a choice. But don't be too hard on people who are afraid to love. The fear comes from deep wounds not from meanness. It takes a lot of courage to risk loving when your heart has been crushed. And oftentimes it gets crushed yet again.
If you are trying to help someone learn to love then help them find a group of safe people -people who understand how difficult it is and how much your friend needs to give and receive love. All people are not safe and cannot be trusted with a fragile heart.
2006-09-27 20:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anne Teak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Fear is the enemy and ultimate end of love. That, or superficiality.
(I am bitter about this: I am a fat guy, and the girls I love are not "hot", but still hold out for the idiot who screws them and leaves.
2006-09-27 20:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Zachary J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and when it gets old it spills caustic all over everything. I think that love is more like a generator: give it a spin and watch the sparks!
2006-09-27 20:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by ta2dpilot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's exactly like a battery. Then it runs out and have you have to buy a new one.
2006-09-27 20:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋