i have lied all my life. i have stole all my life. sometimes i think im stupid and my self esteem levels arent too high. i really want to change my life around because i cant keep walking around letting people call me names. HOW DO I CHANGE? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-27 13:07:39 · 11 answers · asked by FoxE_single _lady37 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
The first thing you need to do is ask God for forgiveness and give your burdens to him. Then go to as many people as you can that you have hurt and ask for their forgiveness also.
2006-09-27 13:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by soccerplayer18 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It'll take time to turn things around and the only way to do it is one step at a time.
As for the lying -- before you say something, ask yourself why--why it will sound good, or why you feel you have to embelish ? Does it really matter whether or not you impress those you're telling the lie to (if that's a reason for the lying) and if you're lying to someone you love, ask yourself why you feel you have to lie to that person.
As for thieving--all I can tell you is this--when you feel the need to take something, or like you're going to take something, keeping your hands either in your pockets, clasped in front of you or fold your arms and walk away--
Remind yourself that you'll appreciate it more if you PAY for it, than if you take it "just because" ...
If none of that works, do seek counseling--there may be deeper issues that need to be addressed.
Good luck !
2006-09-27 13:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen carfuly if and only if u want 2 change not just to make things easyer contact michael at perfectionbupkie@yahoo.com i will help u u may want to tell people uv changed and am turning over a new leaf try to return what u stole and try to correct ur lies talk to a preacher at a church u might also talk to a counselor not cuz ur crazy just cuz they can help say u dont want to b labled
2006-09-27 13:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your actions could be part of a personality disorder that psychotherapy may help. Admitting you are wrong is a good start. Seeking help is the best way to get started on your new life.
2006-09-27 13:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im afraid you are the only one who can change it. you have to want to do it. no matter how many times people will tell you - you have to do this or have to do that - if you dont truely want to do it - then you wont. its as simple as that. you need to change and show people what a good person you are. its going to take people along long time to trust you again. you need to proove to people and hope they offer you a second chance.
2006-09-27 13:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by alrightyyy_then 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today is the first day of the rest of your life.
You can't change the past....you don't know what the future holds....but you have the ability to change the present.
You know what you need to do....now just do it.
2006-09-27 13:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't lie and steal and ignore what people say as long as your not doing those things and continue not to do it then the people will stop saying the things but it won't happen over night
2006-09-27 13:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a good person. actions speak louder than words. over time people will trust and respect you again
2006-09-27 13:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop lying and stealing and prove yourself over and over again and earn people's respect back.
2006-09-27 13:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by First Lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lie about being a thief...no, seriously. everything we do is based on deceiving; whether it be others or ourselves.
2006-09-27 13:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by ridin512deep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋