Lost all friends or never really had friends. No Gf, nor do i want 1, there all the same sluts wanting everything easy. Parents still contrict me, even tho im 21, i cannot move out cos finding a job isnt so simple when im trying to study at uni. Uni ppl are stuck up, or just dnt wanna talk or be friends. I have no clue why. What is going on? I seriously wish i was dead right now. and no its not for attention i do wish i was dead, i just am even too weak to take action. Everywhere i look is negative negative. Forget Family or friends. Im Muslim, on top of that everyday i see my own ppl mess up their own image, and I am the one that suffer, who does not support killings or whatever!!! i wish i was dead. i dont even know why im asking this on yahoo not like im gonna be cured
2006-09-27 12:55:31 · 20 answers · asked by WPReviews 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Suicidal thoughts and depression go hand in hand. Depression is nothing but anger turned inward and I've found the thing that makes me most angry is when I can't live up to some expectation - real or imagined. The only thing that's helped is dropping all of those old ideas; that I HAVE to be perfect and nice and have lots of friends and get good grades and get a good job and support my family and be the most popular successful person ever! Kind of an unrealistic expectation don't you think??? Just typing it makes me tired.
Just accept that you are HUMAN and have limitations. I know very FEW people that are able to work AND go to school at the same time, unless it's a paid internship. As for the friend thing, I know it sounds lame, but once you become more peaceful within yourself, then more genuine real people will naturally gravitate toward you.
Don't give up on you. NEVER give up on you, you won't regret it.
This has been my experience. That's all I can share. The rest is up to you.
2006-09-27 13:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you feel this way. I have times when I feel utterly hopless and aweful. I understand and am willing to help.
First thing you need to do is talk to someone, doesnt matter who just talk. Let everything out that you've been holding in. Take some time to relax. Try starting a journal if you dont want to talk to anyone or cant. Not all girls want or expect everything to be easy, some are just in need of some maturity. They will learn. Muslim is NOT a bad religion at all. It's like any other religion in that it has its fanatics that ruin it for everyone else. You show them the image you want people to know of a Muslim.
If you ever think about doing anything think about the people you will leave behind. The hurt that will linger for years after you're gone. You are irreplaceable. These feelings you have will fade but the pain that is left after a suicide will always be there. You are worth so much more, and I can tell that you are not a selfish person. Suicide is a quick selfish act. There is no going back. There is no redo's no erasers. When it's done it is forever. Your parents will never have their child back. The people who care about you- and there is more than you think- will never know how much you cared about them.
Do not hurt yourself that is the worst thing you can do. Get some help... all you have to do is ask.
2006-09-27 13:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been depressed for eleven years now. I hate my life and I understand what you are going through. I have tried therapist after therapist and none of them have worked. I have gotten rid of friends that are toxic just to find new toxic friends. It seems as though there is no reason to keep going on. However I have this glimpse that maybe some day it will be worth it. I am not sure if I beilve in a higher power or anyhting but I figure everyone has some sort of purpose and I just have not found mine yet but I dont want to give up till I do. However if it is the big picture that is making you depressed just take things on day at a time. Your goal is to get through the day and get to bed and if you do that with no worries set a higher goal of two days, then a week, then two , then a month and so on. I bet you can do it. If you have not told anyone besides the websites you need to talk to your parents or your friends, even though you said you dont have many there is someone you could confide in a little, it may e ven be a professor. Reach out and ask for help and then once you are feeling better you can help someone else. However you cant help others till you help yourself. Good Luck!
2006-09-27 13:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i just want to say that sometimes in life there are times that are hard. But when you look at things on the bright side it helps. I know how you must feel right now because i've been there and nothing anyone can say is going to make it better. The only advice i can give is to try and make friends. Be brave and talk to people. You never know who else is in the exact same place as you are. Remember that no matter what religion you are, all life is valued, and next time you think about dying remember that you are here on this planet for a reason and you have a purpose.
2006-09-27 13:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you attend a university, try going to the health center and talking to a counselor. They should be able to help you figure things out. If you are clinically depressed, they can prescribe medication to help.
You might also think about joining some on-campus group where you might meet people interested in the same things as you are.
Can you get a part-time job that will allow you to get out of the house for a few hours a week? You might be able to get a job on campus.
2006-09-27 13:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend look no further.....I have the answer and it is by way of relationship with Jesus Christ,....he wants you to be part of his family in eternal peace and bliss,.....he will save and forgive you and send his Holy Spirit to comfort you,....you can begin a prayer right now on your knees and give your life to Christ in asking for his gift of forgiveness and ask him to be your savior and friend,....physically reach out your hands to him as hard as you can so that he may completely fulfill his task with you....my friend you will not regret it....
life is not easy no matter what but when you have Jesus on your side and give him total relationship everyday and read the Bible you will find blessing all around you that you didn't see before because you were blinded,......you say that you wish you were dead,.....so you have nothing to loose and everything to gain by reaching to Christ,.....I am looking forward to seeing you in the New Heaven God's Kingdom.....please my friend there is real love to be found just reach for it.
Here is a source so learn more about Christ....just listen to some messages on this site if you would like some support.
http://www.realitysb.org/about.html
God bless you!
2006-09-27 16:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my. You really do sound depressed. If you are considering ways to kill yourself, please call 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Otherwise, get to a doctor and get a thorough physical with blood work, etc. Tell the doctor you are depressed. Don't try to hide it. It is not shameful. If the doctor does not prescribe an antidepressant, find a mental health professional.
If you were less depressed, I'd suggest exercise and being outside to help you feel a bit "lighter". But you need to get on the phone right now.
2006-09-27 13:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Roca W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know what??? If you were the only person that felt this way then maybe you would be "different". However, theres too damn manyof us that are in your shoes too! I've come to realize that everyone is depressed everyone has suicidal thoughts and we still get thru the day. Ben there done that! It sucks but the sun will come up tomarrow!!! And ya know what else...theres a whole hell of a lot of people worse off than you! Innocent children dying of cancer, rapes, murders, lots worse off than you! Be thankful you are alive!!!
2006-09-27 13:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by SoSpecial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to go to the doctor see if you can get some counselling and/or go on anti depressants, there's nothing wrong with them. You need to focus on your studies, screw the people at uni, I'm sure the classes there are big, there maybe someone you haven't yet met. keep your chin up, finish school, after that is when life really begins.
2006-09-27 13:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i read you seriously need to go and see a doctor to get some medication for yourself. depression can be very serious and seeing as though all you see is negative things i think thats a sure sign you need some help. maybe councilling sessions would help/ maybe even support groups on the internet with people who feel the same as you.
you are gunna get some stupid replies for morons on this site - its always the way from what i gather - but ignore them!
wish u all the best - please go and seek professional help
2006-09-27 13:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by alrightyyy_then 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋