My period was regular before I got married. Now I haven't had my period regularly. It took about 3 months after I got my period. I'm very worried because I wan't to get pregnant and I haven't been able. It's been two years now of trying without control pills and nothing has happen. Is it because I am obese that my period is not regular and that's why I dont' get pregnant? please help im very worried, i'm afraid I will never be able to give my husband a baby. =( I'm 25 years old and I understand that when your 30 it becomes harder. What can I do ?? Please help!!!
2006-09-27 12:49:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
First and foremost after your 28th year you are on the down hill slope for reproduction. I
To let you understand my expertise:
I am about to have a surgery on 10/04/06 to fix my fertility problem.
Second: you can no to get pregnant if you have a high fat level That combat your ability to have children. I have been obese for several years. I lost 147 pounds since 2002 and have had irregular periods when I was over 300 pounds. You should consult an fertility expert and do a series of a monthly test to understand your specific situation.
Summary
if you are over 28 you are on the down slope to have children.
After age 35 you have to take mandatory regulatory test to have children.
If you are obese you are at risk to ovulate in order to have children
Seek infertility help NOW before later.
GOD BLESS YOU and please remember if it does not work out ADOPTION IS A BEAUTIFUL THING!!!!!!!
2006-09-27 12:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by justthetwoofus 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Worrying about getting pregnant will sometimes delay things. You must find a way to get your self undercontrol. If things don't happen for you soon, maybe you should consider that seeing a specialist is the thing to do. Don't just make it your problem, you could be perfectly healthy, and your husband could be the reason for the delay in you getting pregnant. On a more solemn note, you have said that you are obese, have you considered the effects obesity can have on your body? take it from someone who has had first hand experience, kids don't like it when heavy parents show up for back to school night. Try getting a handle on your weight, and maybe that will relieve some of the stress you are having in this situation. Good luck, and happy fun trying to get pregnant!
2006-09-27 19:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your fertility rate starts to drop when you're 27 or 28, so you've got a bit of time. Don't panic. Plenty of women become pregnant in their 30's! Being obese can keep you from becoming pregnant. I would lose some weight and try again. You'll need to make your periods regular again somehow...figure out the root of the problem and fix it (could be the weight). That's probably part of the problem as well.
ALSO- Get your husband's sperm count checked if you do all of the above and it still doesn't work. Go to the doctor, he/she will get you sorted out and make sure there are no BIG medical problems going on.
2006-09-27 19:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about the fact that you are obese. Being overweight comes with many health concerns, such as diabetes, high blood pressure, and also infertily. Don't be too worried, just take better care of yourself. (In other words, try to lose some weight). You or your husband could also have performance anxiety, but don't worry, that is not all that serious, it's just that it's a fact that when people are more relaxed during sex, they are more likely to have a baby. You can't rush these things, such as having a baby, because in your case, because you want to give your husband a baby,and have a baby yourself, you're putting pressure on yourself to feel obligated to have a baby, when in fact there should not be any kind of pressure involved. Just relax, and enjoy the moment as is. You'll be glad that you did.
2006-09-27 20:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Milya F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
being overweight can have an affect of becoming pregnant. If your body is not the right enviroment for a fetus it won't stick around. You need to get yourself on some vitamins, and watch your health, perhaps start eating a little bit better, become a little more active. Get your body in order. and most of all relax, it should come naturally.
also, it might be a good idea to pay a visit to the doctor to rule out an other medical problems, or complications..
2006-09-27 19:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by graphixgirlin06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doctor, possibly a fertility specialist. You can also start with a home ovulation kit, perhaps you dont ovulate monthly which is common. You can buy these over the counter, but I would recommend a visit with the doctor-start there and soon you will be a mom. There are so many things to help couples in your case, its very common now people having a hard time conceiving.
2006-09-27 19:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by yodasgal12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People have children in their 40's.....Calm down!
Surely if you are 25 you understand the complications for you and a fetus if you are obese.?? I think you know the answer to your question.......Your weight has place a lot of pressure on your ovaries, your liver, your EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!I know because I was there...That is why I can say this......Concentrate on your inner and outer beauty and your health before you become pregnant with child............You will want to be able to care for that child in a lot of ways...............Good luck!
2006-09-27 19:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See a gynecologist to be tested for poly-cystic ovarian syndrome. If you have put on weight suddenly for no apparent reason and your periods became irregular about the same time these could be symptoms of this condition which results in infertility. It is treatable but if left untreated you may develop diabetes and or possibly endometrial cancer. Don't panic though,just see a doctor and ask about it....if you have the syndrome the doctor can treat it and prevent the adverse effects.
2006-09-27 20:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by sincewhen? 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First you have to get your periods to where they occur monthly. To do that, first visit a doctor. You may have to go onto birth control to regulate your period to something more normal. Second, you may have to loose some weight. There are many ways to do this, just set a reasonable goal and do it. Good luck.
2006-09-27 20:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by danjlil_43515 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go and see the doctor and talk to him. he may tell you to lose some weight. sorry to say that. good luck. many woman have children in there 30's and 40's.. also because you are worried about it, that can also be the problem. don't think about it.
2006-09-27 19:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋