ok me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years and i love him to death. sometime he can be real controlling and jealous (im 16 hes 18). We broke up the other day but we break up all the time but he said it was really over this time
i can tell he loves me but i dont know where i went wrong. ive tried fixing it over and over. All we did was aruging like the last 3 weeks of what relationship we had but i thought we could overcome it.
I mean should I move on or should I just wait. I think it has tooken up alot of my teenage life but its like when u find someone that doesnt cheat and treats u right y give it up, b/c u may never find a love like that again..
Ill be trying not to call him begging him to talk to me and stuff but then he'll calll and b like "so i c how much u care" im like O M G!! Should i tell him not to call me??I told him i was getting my nosed pierced and he was liek im not going to b with no trash and mess..hes playing games w/ my hearts HELP ME!!
2006-09-27 12:42:33 · 10 answers · asked by all4yew25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should i leave him alone?? & tell him not to call me and try 2 get over him by talking to other boys?? Or should I keep all my feelings for him and never let him go?? Gah I Love Him 2 Death...
2006-09-27 12:45:04 · update #1
He said that i wasnt ready for a relationship and mess.. i mean idk he was looking at my MYSPACE n i was talking to this gurl me and her got n a disagreement about my friend b.c she messed with her bro n i was like well i heard he wasnt good ne ways.. n he was like how can u do me like.. i was like wha..
2006-09-27 12:47:55 · update #2
Well you say its hard to leave someone who treats you right but take a step back and look at it from a spectators point of view, If he's such a great guy and he's treating you right then why would you be questioning your relationship with him?
I would suggest talking with him about how he makes you feel when he acts controlling and jealous. If he dosen't approve of things that you want to with your life then he needs to express it in a more sensitive way. Saying he dosen't want to be with "trash" is not the way a caring understanding boyfriend responds.
I'm sure you two both have strong feelings for each other, but sometimes thats not enough. It's easy to develop feelings of love with someone whom you've been with and known for a long time, and I know it makes it alot harder to try to leave them and start a new relationship but sometime you need to look at your future and ask yourself if that's something you want to be dealing with forever.
Ask yourself what you value and what you need in a relationship and the things that you can absolutely not put up with (a bf mistreating you, controlling you, etc) and make a decision based on your personal emotional needs, and what sacrifices your willing to make.
Remember relationships are meant to be a kind of support and comfort in your life.
2006-09-27 12:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sixteen years old and even though at the time you think that you will never find anyone like him again you're right,you will find someone better one day.As young as you are you will more than likely have a number of relationships before you find the right guy for you.Lose the guy and concentrate on you for a while.
2006-09-27 19:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Russell L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only advice i can give is make yourself that little bit less unavailable, dont answer his calls as often make it seem you have moved on a bit, let him wonder if he made the wrong choice, there is nothing more attractive to a guy than a girl who can stand on her own, who has the attitude of i can live with or without you, even if its not how you really feel.
2006-09-27 19:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by lavidamasespecial1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl every body has problems wit love if u guys keep on braking up then maybe he does not love u as much as u love him or maybe u jjust need to keep ur distance 4 a while and just cool off and it will blow over but u need to figuer wats going on and why do u guys keep breaking up all of the time
2006-09-27 19:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by Claire M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say he's a good man and treats you right then say he's controlling and jealous. Either he is or he isn't. Make up your mind which first, then make a decision.
2006-09-27 19:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So this is the reason why most good guys cant find women...theyre alwasy hanging out with the losers...*sigh*
2006-09-27 19:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by stupidreplier1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion,I think you should fidn someone your age.
What was the reason he broke up with you?
Ask yourself what you did wrong.
Talk to him.Maybe you'll get together again.
Good luck!
2006-09-27 19:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl just tell him to call you when ever and don't lie like that anymore .you said that he was playing with your hart and you just gon tell him that you was getting your nose pierced duh how bright is that
2006-09-27 19:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wowwwwww
you're young and focus on education!!!!
next time, dump HIM and tell yourself that he's not worth it.
2006-09-27 19:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by funlovin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T GET YOUR NOSE PIERCED AND LOSE THE BOYFRIEND.
2006-09-27 19:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋