2006-09-27 12:19:07 · 12 answers · asked by hail2mech 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I feel the same way.. I was talking to this girl over the internet and phone for 2 years. Then when we meet up for the first time..20 mintues later we were fooling around ...FOR HOURS . During this time , she tells me how much she loves me and wants to be with me ..and Im thinking ...this is the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. I loved her with all my heart and this night confirmed it for me . I was ready to change my life around . I thought , this is what it feels like when you know you found the 1 . Never felt like this before . Well , after this day ..days go by and we talk less.. I notice a change in her attitude. Then 2 weeks later as she's getting into another guys car..she calls me and tells me she still loves me. WELL, 2 weeks after that ..she tells me that she had sex with that guy the whole night and everything I thought we had was a game.. Im no good ..I cant satisfy her the way this guy can ..blah blah blah .. Im like , why did we do what we did and say what we said that first night if it was all a game.. She's like , thats how it is.
4 years after the fact my life has gone downhill.. she's still with that guy and now she's having his baby..The crazy part is that she still calls me up thinking that we're cool..In her mind ..im a great friend and she doesnt want to lose me in her life. Well , in my mind , I hate her guts and want nothing to do with her and her baby from the same guy that she's been with . I hate everyone and everything and i'll never trust another girl again. So yeah , life isn't worth living if your not happy and with a situation like mine ..i'll never be happy. The only thing that's keeping me around is that i'd cause my family too much grief if anything happened to me ...but i've been depressed for 4 freaking years with no light at the end of the tunnel .
They talk about how life is a cycle and things will eventually work out .. Really? Not only did this girl tell me 4 years ago about how sex with this guy was the best and I could never come close and about how that first night we were together after meeting for the first time NEVER SHOULD HAVE HAPPENED ...4 years later she's still with him and now having his baby . So yeah , Im still alone and depressed and lost my job on account of the stress and she's about to start a family with another guy. Nice life , right? She looked right into my eyes that first night telling me how much she loves me ..but it was all a game. She made me believe we had a future unlike no other together . What a joke !
2006-09-27 12:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by clydecromey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, life is a precious commodity. If you think you will never be happy, try changing things in your life. Do not dwell on the negatives, see them as challenges. I had a very good friend who was born with juvenile diabetes. At the age of 8, he lost a leg, just above the knee. By the time he reached 14, he was blind. Undeterred, he made the adjustments needed to continue with as good of a life as he could possibly live.
Was his a good life? He first thought it wasn't. By the time he reached college, and graduated, he realized that even though he had faced multiple challenges, his life meant something. He is my inspiration, even though he died at the age of 25, I find myself willing to endure many hardships, knowing they are nothing compared to what he faced and I can overcome the odds.
2006-09-27 12:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by rexallen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you can never know that you will never be happy. There is all kinds of help to guide you in finding true happiness. The first step is to get out of depression. Drink a lot of water, and go see a doctor.
2006-09-27 12:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you can see the future maybe you can see some winning Lottery numbers for me.
How can you know that you will never be happy? You feel bad today, and maybe tomorrow, but you can't know about the future. life works in cycles, so eventually your life will turn around and you will see this "bad" time for what it really is, a temporary thing.
2006-09-27 12:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes life is worth living. although one could say they may never be happy(hard to know that for sure though), what about the people that they bring joy to simply because they are on the planet. The life is worth living for that reason alone.
2006-09-27 12:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by movedtoMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a dog. Preferably a puppy that you can bond with. No body can make you feel more appreciated than a dog. If you're always good to them, they will give you unconditional love. Happiness in all other areas of your life will just come naturally once you have a dog.
2006-09-27 12:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by The Baron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try making some goals... make little ones and really large one...
and try everything to get to them in a way you wouldn't do.. if you have to use an actor on tv... and mock them in the process... find happy friends if you dont have some already and hang out with them...
if you really do this and are true to yourself you will find happiness again!
i promise... i have a lot of issuess that effect my life in all roles in my life... but i found when i go out of my box to do something it started to excite me... but you'll have to do this over and over... it wont change over night...
work on being positive... yeah i know there is no point... just try it i know you did before and it didnt work but where you thinking postive or where you saying yeah i knew ther is no point? well if your thinking this your still being negitive... try to belive it... just try... what else do you have to lose right? something differnt to do... the lost of your blanket.... so you have to put effort into wanting it i guess...
but it works just have faith trust in yourself and love yourself...
good luck
Mad luv
2006-09-27 12:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 10:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit complaining! U probanly have a better life than alot of people in the world and they look on the bright side! jeez.
2006-09-27 12:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree! Get a dog. Animals will always treat you better then people will. Go figure.
2006-09-27 12:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋