Im a freshmen and i really like this girl but i havent approached her bacause i think she is way out of my league. She isnt in a clique beecause i go to a private school and everybody new in 9th grade.
I just need to know some details and tips before other guys stat hawking her down. I am very quiet and to my self. Im social and have friends im just not the most popular guy in school. The girl is African American i dont know if that makes a difference i just wanted to put it out there.
2006-09-27 11:57:08 · 13 answers · asked by o_pl_mn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you shouldn't be afraid to talk to her, and just be yourself. don't like just walk up to her and tell her that you like her, but just try to start to become friends with her.
i'm a freshmen too, if that helps.
2006-09-27 12:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Maddi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the "outside" makes a difference, you need to look at the "inside" and maybe just ask her out for a pop after school. Or maybe start with just saying hi, then let it go from there. (Sorry I'm not much of a help, I've not been in the dating scene for 13 years now and before that I only dated two people and the second one is my hubby of 13 years.)
2006-09-27 19:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys miss out on great girls for the same reason. You'll never know unless you try. She might be just like you down to earth and very pleasant. You can't always go by looks. Just talk to her. Ask her about music or tv. Tell her you think she's pretty. She'll either kiss you or smack you but either way she's into you.
2006-09-27 19:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by laedeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call her at home! You are in private school...so if there are small class sizes it might be tense for you to ask her out with an audience! Just be polite and don't worry so much. Be yourself!
2006-09-27 19:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should just start talking with her. and then flirt with her and be really sweet and hang out with her like shes your friend. then maybe even tell her how you feel. and take things from there see what happens. you never know she might feel the same way about you =]
2006-09-27 19:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by itsss_brittanyyy3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you'll never find out if you dno't let her know. Give it a try. Tell her WHY you like her, and ask her out. You never know what may happen.
2006-09-27 19:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her go talk to her. If she doesnt like you, then move on to a different girl.
2006-09-27 19:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jen A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. make very simple conversation with her, (ex)how are you?...asker her name or something. Give it a try and if that doesnt work, there are other girls.
2006-09-27 19:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!NOT OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE, SAY HI, TALK TO HER, FIND COMMON GROUND, SHE IS IN THE SAME BOAT AS YOU, AND SCARED TOO!!! TRY TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.
2006-09-27 19:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by jynne63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU like this girl? Send her a candy bar or something.
2006-09-27 19:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋