me and my guy broke up on sep.15. i wanted him back til i found out he "kinda" likes another girl. he still calls me like everyday but i feel uncomfortable knowing there's someone else. he said we will be together again he just needs some time. should i wait or just let the other girl have her chance with one of the greatest guys around? i really do love him.
2006-09-27 11:38:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That kind of stuff is hard. I would say at first, just stay at home, have a glass of wine and watch a good classic movie, but let your ex belive you are out on a date. This will be easy since you said he still calls you a lot. It will drive him insain thinking of some other guy clicking with you, while the whole time you're at home trying to get over it yourself. Plus, it kinda keeps you in control of the situation. Plus it'll turn him on that you don't seem so needy and clingy. Like, say you're going to a bar and you'll probably be home around 11pm (it's the begining, you're taking the "date" slowly) . See if he calls around the time you should be "getting back". If he does, do not pick up. He'll think all sorts of crazy things. If you talk the next day and he says he was there (or if he doesn't say he was), just say you went to a differant bar and then the park or something, which is why you didn't pick up the phone when he called cause you were still out having a fabulous first date!!! "go out" the following weekend, and then not the weekend after that. Then "change guys" . Your ex willing be eating away at himself, racking his brain, obsessed with what is going on with you, that he'll be too distracted with whatever is going on with him and his date. He should be crawling back to you, if it is meant to be. And if not, then it wasn't meant to be and someone else out there is. GOOD LUCK! Let me know how it goes! I'm kind of excited to see him squirm myself!!!
2006-09-27 11:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I know exactly how you feel. To be honest, the reason why you're not over him because you talk to him on a daily basis over the phone. It's good you are still on talking terms and everything but you're still gonna be left wondering, and waiting for that call. So my suggestion is to create a little space between the two of you. Go out with you friends, have some fun, do some activities you like to ease you mind from boys entirely! I promise it'll help if only a little, because the one I deeply cared for decided to call it quits and moved to another state. OUCH! :)
2006-09-27 18:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by latrece_r_06 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON"T GET SUCKED INTO LIES..If he REALLY loved you do you think he'd be wit someone else? He's just keepin you on the side if this other girl falls through..I will tell you that it takes time to heal. My friend took almost 6 months to heal after a 2 yr break up
2006-09-27 18:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by loedinglover88 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl... move on. Time heals everything, let him go. If he is "the greatest guy" around, he wouldn't put you through this (putting a break on your relationship and test drive the other one).
2006-09-27 18:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON GIRL THAT'S NOT THE KIND OF MAN U WANT IN YOUR LIFE. IF HE WANTS TO STAY WITH U HE WON'T THINK OF ANOTHER GIRL. UNLESS U LIKE TO BE PLAYED WITH LIKE A TOY. FIND ANOTHER MAN BEFORE U CAN'T FIND A WAY TO GET OUT OF IT.
2006-09-27 18:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by diji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab him lady!!!
Just don't take any **** from him when it comes to the other girl. Make him understand that if he flirts with her just ONCE, you'll drop him like it's hot.
2006-09-27 18:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep moving. You are too young and pretty to get stuck yet.
2006-09-27 18:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Occupy your time. Keep your self busy!
2006-09-27 18:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl fight for your man
2006-09-27 18:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by JEANETTE V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋