Children who is really fun, and outgoing when he/she is confident, but when she is in some place like school, she is not socialable.
2006-09-27 11:37:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Hi. Depends on the age and the sex. My daughter was really shy and unsociable for a long time. We just kept giving her confidence boosts, and doing things with her to get her out there a bit. Although we never forced anything. Gradually she started changing. Now, she is completely different! For her birthday this year she wanted to go to OZZFEST! So we took her, she had a great time (supervised of course). Sometimes you just have to let them grow into it. A lot of parents think right away there is something wrong with their kids, or they need meds, or they are depressed....WRONG! Sometimes they just need room to grow. Just make sure you keep good communication with your kids, and let them know no matter what it is they can talk to you or come to you. You would be surprised. Don't keep asking what's wrong either, when they are ready they'll let you know. Just keep an eye on them. Now if you notice things like not eating at all or cutting themselves (arms, legs, stomach), pills coming up missing, stuff like that, than step in and talk to them, and that is when you should consider therapy as a family. Always as a family...why? If one person is having a problem it will affect all!
2006-09-27 11:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have them pick a game or activity that they really liked to play or do or take that person with a bunch of people that make their self confidence problem a problem and make the child with the issue to be the leader of the group and organize a game of soccer or something or you could have him organize a community service project with a bunch of other people not only will it make them feel good but also hopefully they will meet some new people on the way!!!
2006-09-27 18:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Miracles <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a teacher and when I see kids like this I try to find their interests firsts or what they are REALLY good at. I try to then pair them with kids of similiar interests for conversation, reports, etc. A good idea is to get them in a club, group, or sports setting.
2006-09-27 18:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by cloudnine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having a samilar issue with my son. He is very fun and energetic at home but I am told he is not very sociable at preschool.
I figure it is best not to push him but I do hope he becomes more social.
2006-09-27 18:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Minina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was that way as a kid and still a little as an adult. I'm not shy. I'm just an introvert. I like to listen and watch.
2006-09-27 18:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by sinnfeinan_bastard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him checked for add
2006-09-27 18:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by RAY T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋