All those I have loved have been taken away from me.
All...
What lesson would Love teach me, that I must experience this?
2006-09-27 11:31:11 · 12 answers · asked by bobkgin 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Love should have taught you that you should be glad those people were taken away and did not leave by their own free will.
2006-09-27 11:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bud. Someone once said "It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all" While poetically that statement is beautific, I would say that they are the same thing. Without loss, pain, hate, and all of the negative sides of love as an emotion, we wouldn't be able to experience it in the first place. I think love is worth the pain, kind of like an innoculation.
Peace.
2006-09-27 18:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships are temporary. Either people you love will go away or die or you'll die. In any case, all relationships end.
Therefore, it's not really something worth worrying about.
Instead, think of all great times you had with the person. Enjoy relationships while you have them. Afterwards, instead of dwelling on how it ended, be glad of having the opportunity to have the middle part.
If you've lost someone to death, their memories live on with you. They still have an affect on your life. My wife died of cancer. She would have died if I was with her or if I had never known her. I'm glad I got to know her before she died, and I'm glad I was able to help her through some hard times.
2006-09-27 18:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by nondescript 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love didn't take away your family and friends away from you and no it is not out to teach you a hard lesson in life. I don't know why your family and friends were taken away from you. But the author of love is God. God is love. He loves you and no I don't understand Him especially in your situation but I do know that he wants to help you. I have noticed those that hurt the most are the ones who recieve the most comfort and grace when they ask God for help. The family I loved was taken away from me when I was young and I have had to learn to trust God even in the midst of that great pain. I have no family members that is naturally mine. God has proved his love and grace over and over to me when I felt like I could not go on or understand the situation. You can't blame your loss on love but on the curse of sin that dominates mankind and Earth. God can help you arise above that if you ask him for Help.
2006-09-27 18:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by wonderwoman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have learned the ultimate about love bob
you have learned that it is the most important experience that a person can have
and sadly we dont realise the extent of it till we miss it
but the thing with love is ... it is so strong ... it doesnt go away not even death can do that
take time sweetheart ... you will look back at the love you shared with a smile and not with tears xx
2006-09-27 18:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by Peace 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that you have done anything wrong or incompletely.
Love is one of those thing where if you try to think of all of its definitions and relationships around the globe; you get the similar "tree falls and no one is around to hear it does it make a noise" zen moments.
Love is the most pleasuresome and painful thing in life and you can choose to stick with it or run out of fear of it's power.
2006-09-27 18:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by Amy K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is reciprocal you don't only get it back from those you give it to you get it back from those you are yet to meet and those that have left you have not really left they are just on the other side cheering for you until you make it home and those that have left that are still living needed to share their joy with other your time together was done
2006-09-27 18:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Tiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every single person that you have loved, has died? That sounds really sad, but you must love more than just these people!
2006-09-27 18:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kutlessfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should teach you that we all come and we all got to go. that shouldn't stop our love of life, our love of being able to love period. i'm sorry that you're hurting but don't be bitter. be happy that you've loved and have been love. some don't even have that you know. its gone be good
2006-09-27 18:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What lesson would Love teach me, that I must experience this?
SILLY ANSWER BUT==
Just could be YOU should be looking to The GOD/JESUS!
2006-09-27 18:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by whynotaskdon 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋