she really loves me but I dont feel the same way and I want to be nice about it
2006-09-27 11:22:15 · 10 answers · asked by gia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty is the best policy. Try to make her put things in perspective, if you stay and don't love her back, she'll be way worse off. Hopefully you have the kind of relationship where you want the other person to be happy. The sooner you do it the better. Be gentle and use kind words. There's nothing sadder than a woman with a broken heart, so be prepared, and don't get sucked back in. Good Luck
2006-09-27 11:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by jessica s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww sad. but you gotta do what you gotta do. try telling one of her best friends before you do it. make sure she will have support. but dont forget to have her friend not tell her! but put her down in a nice way. dont be mean about it or do it online or on the phone. do it in person thats the right thing
2006-09-27 11:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by volleyballgirljs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Let her know you still want to be firends with her. She probably wont like that answer,,,and not speak to you for awhile,,But when she gets over it,,i guarantee she will be your friend again. The truth is the only way.
2006-09-27 11:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be like my ex and just stop calling me and taking my calls...but if you want to be nice to her and make her understand just tell her your feelings. It'll be hard for her at first but its better than lying to her.
2006-09-27 11:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by njagalamalaya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh, what a poor hearted boy you are, you big meany, why can't you just be friends? Take her out then kiss her goodnight and put her in a taxi home.
2006-09-27 11:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be straight with her. None of these we can still be friends or '**** buddies' it will only end in more tears. You've got to be cruel to be kind. You could always sleep with a member of her family... that should finnish things.
2006-09-27 11:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by crimson beauty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say, "I don't want to be with you." That works most of the time.
2006-09-27 11:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say her name than say I'm sorry i like you but i think we should see other people.
i have done it 3 times peace of cake.
(now)
2006-09-27 11:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by Beka. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say sorry you're not intrested, give her a hug then go do your own stuff, but DON"T completely ignore them, the just makes them even more heartbroken........
2006-09-27 11:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by LonelyPsycho...I Need A Hug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you open your mouth ...stop leading the poor girl on...
2006-09-27 11:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋