Shes my first cousin.and i love her.its legal to marry cousins in my area.how do i tel i love her
2006-09-27 11:05:55 · 38 answers · asked by nasser_matrix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
omg, please don't do this, it is just WRONG
2006-09-27 11:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've got to be very strong, and not do this. Sit on your feelings, and if you both feel the same way in ten years, then go ahead. A 15 year old flirting can be very hard to resist, but you will just have to walk out of the room when she starts it. Always try to have an adult around, or at least someone she doesn't want to know about her feelings. Legal doesn't enter into it. If you really love her, keep off, no matter what she says or does.
2006-09-27 11:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Delora Gloria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help me out here.. how is loving a cousin or any family member different from being gay. YEAH it sounds really disgusting but so did being gay just a few decades ago. They both don't harm anyone else and are just as equally wrong in working and producing life dept. soon all life and all actions will be judged soley on whether they work or don't and not instinctive responses
2006-09-27 11:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you've had a lot of negs and all i will say is my objection is the fact that she is still a child. however if u both feel the same way when she's old enough to know what she wants then i will tell you of a friend of mine who fell in love with his first cousin. they are still together after twenty years of marriage and have two beautiful boys. they were married legally and also had genetic tests done before venturing to have their children. if people can accept other slightly obscure relationships ie. gay, mixed race then they need to open their minds to other forms also.
2006-09-27 11:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by ididntknodat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. First thing you should do is brush your tooth
2. then take the ring off the top of the Bud can
3. meet her someplace romantic like the county fair at night with all the lights on near the pig judgin pen
4.Get down on one knee and take that Bud cap out of your overall pocket and give it a good spit shine
5. THIS IS REAL IMPORTANT!!!! DO NOT LOOK INTO HER LAZY EYE. LOOK INTO HER GOOD EYE
6. Hold up the Bud cap and say Daisy Lou, I love you, I always have , will you mrry me?
That's it , should work. Good Luck
2006-09-27 11:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by rjinsanjo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
With reasoning like that I can believe that in your area it is legal to marry a cousin.
Most areas prohibit that since they are trying to prevent mental defects from inbreeding but that doesn't seem to be a future factor for your family
2006-09-27 11:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get so tired of reading all the crap about cousins marrying. I could post my references again, but screw all you ignorant bigots! Cousins are NOT considered kin in the Bible (let's see if you have the intelligence and guts to try to find the appropriate references-hint: Moses, the lawgiver), and as for "hillbillies" marrying cousins, would you consider Albert Einstein or FDR hillbillies? They married their respective 1st cousins.
As for your situation, the main problem is age and you should avoid situations where you will be alone with your cousin until she is 18.
2006-09-27 11:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by young_at_heart_05 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im going to give you an answer without being bias. I cant say i understand where you are coming from . But maybe wait until she is old enough or just tell her upfront. maybe she feels the same way. I guess if it feels right do what you have to do. i dont think it is anyone elses business isf what you are doing is right or wrong
2006-09-27 11:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by Hypnotyc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you loving your cousin is sometimes only human but this is a phase you are going through
if you plan on building a futrue with your cousin you will not want to have children together due to high risks of birth defects. you need to be talking to your parents about this situation not the community
2006-09-27 11:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by keh34_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better stay with a more platonic love with your cousin. Everyone has the hots for a cousin at some point in their life, but it's not good to pursue it. You're messing with D.N.A.
2006-09-27 11:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well U need to find out if she likes you b4 you do n e thing! Buy a new pair of pants or a shirt and ask her opinion, such as do i look hott in this or does my butt look cute in these?if you get an anwser like, umm idk, or wat are u talking about, she might not feel the same way about u. but if u get a , hell ya or just a simple yes she might be interested.
2006-09-27 11:12:06 · answer #11 · answered by tdredhead01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋