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This time there was 5 girls. I VERY NICELY said to them " I saw what you young ladies did to that poor girl 2 days ago and she deserves an apology" not only did they laugh at me well they felt like intimidating me and followed me to the food court and began singing Mariah Careys Hero. I was on the verge of tears. And than they said-loud-I need to take a S**T maybe I'll go **** in her lunch and pointed in my direction. I was very humiliated. I didnt say anything wrong to these girls just that they should apologise. And why arent they in school? It was 1pm isnt that school time? what is going on with people? Well I circled the mall before I went back to work. Oh sorry this is continuation to 2days ago I saw something horrible... I wonder what ever happened to that poor girl?

2006-09-27 11:02:00 · 14 answers · asked by frha75 2 in Society & Culture Etiquette

14 answers

I read that question a couple of days ago, I think, so I'm pretty sure I know what you are talking about. I suppose that those girls have no reason to listen to you, even though the advice you are giving them is sound. It seems like there's not too much that you can do.

If you feel that their harrassment is a danger to you, you can call the security guards or the police.

2006-09-27 15:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1 0

Seeing as it's done and over with, there's not much you can say to them anymore. However, do go back to the mall and report both incidents to the mall cops. Be clear as you can about the details, but remain calm too. Hopefully their parents aren't idiots too and will let the girls suffer when they get in trouble. I know I'd be pissed if I ever caught my daughter doing that.
IF you do see the girls again AND they are harassing anybody, don't say anything to them and go straight to the mall cops. They obviously have no respect for fellow people and need a lesson on who really is on the bottom rung. Though make sure they make bad examples of themselves first, the cops can't do much without proof or many people reporting the behavior (other adults may have ignored the girls because they are "not their problem").

2006-09-27 13:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by erythisis 4 · 1 0

First, you just have to believe in Karma...they will get what is coming to them. Second, I am glad you said something to those girls, but you let them bully you as well because they almost made you cry. Yeah, they may have not seen your face, but they saw your body language. At the end of the day, all you can tell yourself is that you did what is right. If you believe these girls are that young, call mall security on them, although, that my cause more problems. If you are going to dish it out, be willing to suffer what comes next. Also, maybe those girls acted like jerks when you confronted them, but I am sure at the end of the day when they were alone, they were feeling like crap. Kudos to you!

2006-09-27 11:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by littlebit17 5 · 2 0

Alert security tell them of the situation what are they doing out of school? Yeah you may have initiated contact verbally with these girls first but that is no way to answer a question. Shows where their manners are. How Rude.

2006-09-27 12:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by tazachusetts 4 · 0 0

Don't let kids get you down. You are grown. If you ignore them and act like you are better than them (which you are).... they will be infuriated. Kids act out for attention. Do not give them the satisfaction. Secondly, don't be nice to kids unless they are your own. Kids, especially teens, think niceness is a weakness and they will walk all over you. Don't be mean either. Stern...structured... demand respect in your voice. Don't ask them to appologize. Tell them to appologize, because what they did was wrong and they should be ashamed of themselves.

2006-09-27 12:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by brooke2004jsu 1 · 2 0

go up to them and show them u are not afraid. say what they did is wrong, and the only think they r changing is themelves into horrible people. if they threaten u, say "u may do that, but i will take you to court" if they continue to bother u call the cops or security and have them thrown out, they may even not be allowed to shop there anymore

2006-09-27 15:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Next time call the police. Most areas that are large enough for a mall have a truancy officer.

2006-09-27 11:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kikka 3 · 2 1

What was your originally question two days ago? I'm a good advice giver, but I need to see the other question to answer better.

2006-09-27 11:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by summerlover 3 · 0 0

Some people can be so cruel! Try to stay away from them. You are a very nice person and they need to grow up. After a while the guilt might get to them for you so don't worry too much about it.

2006-09-27 11:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by songbird 6 · 1 2

Yeah, those girls are mean!

But, why should you feel intimidated when you are the adult? If you are brave enough to say what you said earlier on, why can't you say something when they said those thing to you?

2006-09-27 13:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jasmine Ird 2 · 0 0

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