Eveytime my boyfriend comes over . My kitten always come to him and lay with him. He sometimes does that to me . I mean the kitten , he's a boy . Anyways he always waits by the door everyday for my boyfriend . And he always follow him around. Is he just used to him , because his cat had kittens and my boyfriend gave him to me for a gift. Dont get me wrong my kitten does lay with me sometimes and spends his time with me when my boyfriend is gone. Does my cat just like my boyfriend a little more?Please dont be rude . I just want to know.
2006-09-27 10:48:37 · 8 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Pets ➔ Cats
I'm never mean to it. I love my kitten and I spoil him and take care of him.
2006-09-27 10:53:26 · update #1
I will really like to know. Is it because my kitten knew my boyfriend longer.
2006-09-27 10:56:03 · update #2
I'm never in a bad mood . I'm always happy . I even bring him treats everyday.
2006-09-27 10:58:11 · update #3
Is it because they are both male . Or can cat's tell.
2006-09-27 11:03:42 · update #4
I feel very certain that your kitten doesn't like your bf more because he has known him longer. Cat psychology just isn't like human psychology.
It's pretty obvious to me that he likes you both a lot. He may spend the day with you and then he has the excitement of someone else coming later in the day and he knows when your bf is going to show up, probably after work and getting close to the time when kitty can expect another yummy meal.
2006-09-27 11:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by old cat lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying. Your kitten knew your boyfriend from the time he was born. He's used to being held and cuddled by him. He feels comfortable with him and it probably reminds him of home and his mommy. It will take time for him to get over his homesickness and adjust to a new human to love. In time the two of you will be inseparable friends. Don't be jealous. Use the time he shares with your boyfriend to your advantage. Pet him while he is in your boyfriends lap, maybe even give him a treat. When he knows that your completely safe to love, he will melt into your arms.
Also, cats have very sensitive noses. They don't like perfumes or heavy smells so don't wear that stuff around kitty.
2006-09-27 11:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this before too. I don't think the kitten loves your boyfriend more than you, perhaps just wants his approval more or sees him as more of a challenge to win over. Kitties are interesting and mysterious. You could always get a second kitty, then things might change....better yet, get a street cat!!
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2006-09-27 11:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some pets seem to latch onto other people for reasons we may never understand. Maybe your kitten picked up some bad vibes from you, or your boyfriend fed it something very tasty when you weren't there.
2006-09-27 10:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Unknown 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is just the kitten and who it happened to latch on to. The wifey hates that some of our animals latched on to me. Oh and so do I and I try to get them to leave me alone.
2006-09-27 10:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is the nature of cats to cozy up to those who are not "cat people" (even if they don't show it) just to annoy them.
2006-09-27 12:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by paulorlandi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when ur at your house do you usually have a bad mood and such? if so the cat wont like you because ur a grouchy oscar.
2006-09-27 10:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by dinky 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cats are very weird creatures. it's not you, so don't take it to heart.
2006-09-27 11:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by mirage 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋