(They have chosen to eat a lot of food - no disease is making them eat a lot)
2006-09-27 10:48:14 · 18 answers · asked by Unknown 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
tell her/him god didn't choose her to be fat.was she FAT when she was born.apparently food is a comfort zone for her,no one's fault but theirs.tell that person to stop making excuses and do something about it..
2006-09-27 10:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everybody is forgetting one thing. God may have made us all different. Some fat some thin, some tall some small. But the most important gift God gave us is...FREE WILL. He may bless us with multiple bounties or put us though many trials or make us the most perfect person in the world but our choices define our lives. God did not magically turn her into an obese person. It was probably partly genetics and mostly lifestyle choice. We can't change genetics but we can make better choices. It may be hard but it is in our power to choose...and making the right choices is the key.
2006-09-27 11:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by pride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them it's not their fault and their not the only one I'm not that way but I would just tell them God didn't pick you to be like this you made a choice and you can also make a choice by eating healthier food if they aren't already of more of it and doing some exercise even walking helps! I hope this is somewhat of a help to you and your friend tell your friend I said good luck!
2006-09-27 10:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That God made this your trial and it is up to you to choose to do something with it. He never gives us more than we can handle and he chose her to have this problem for a reason. this is a good way for making her responsible for her actions, but not being rude or upsetting her by telling her to stop eating. Food can be an addiction she needs help. It is hell to try and stop eating, you really need to give her support, instead of pressing your views on her.
2006-09-27 10:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by TRISHTHEDISH76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be supportive of them. Tell them if they think God chose them to be fat, ask for prayer for God to choose to make them healty. I know from experience, being overweight is probably one of the worst and depressing experiences someone can have. Its not that the person that is overweight wants to pass the blame to someome else, its just that sometimes we feel so hopeless and its easier to say that. Overeating is an addiction just like pills or pot are. Its just not as recognized but I can tell you I've prayed many times to be released from this hell.
2006-09-27 10:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by lolliejane1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a sturdy question yet remember this, GOD did no longer DOES those issues. human beings DO undesirable issues no longer GOD. God did no longer enable the Assyrians to triumph over the Jews they simply conquered all of them on their very own. God did no longer kill the Jews interior the Holocaust, Hitler did. God provides us unfastened decision and regrettably some human beings make very very undesirable possibilities and kill many human beings. yet human beings make those possibilities no longer God. human beings do undesirable issues to human beings, no longer GOD!!!!!! Im no longer Jewish, im Christian yet i've got faith that a number of them would be attentive to the way i've got faith. And by ability of how the Greeks in no way conquered the Jews and the Egyptians in no way quite conquered them. The Jews went their for paintings and slowly have been grew to become right into a slave stress.
2016-10-18 02:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by casaliggi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them interested in something fun, an outdoor activity or something. The problem is that people just sit around inside all day. If they would get outside and do something to excercise our country wouldn't have this problem. You can eat as much as you want as long as you are an active person.
2006-09-27 11:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Shinkirou Hasukage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from heredity it's up to each individual to decide what they do about diet, or anything else for that matter.
Being obese is not a "sin", but it can be a burden and cause or accelerate ailments. But it is not up to God to make us eat more or less. It's up to us.
2006-09-27 11:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by fresch2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did God put the food in their mouths?
2006-09-27 11:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them 11 bucks and directions to the nearest weight watchers meeting. Go with him, and tell him that his choices are making him fat not some mystical guy in the sky, to take responsibility, than offer to work out with them, and help them learn new healthy habits
2006-09-27 10:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋