I recently have been working with someone who has been helping me out by appearing on some artwork that I am preparing for a music release (yes, she is a model). All went okay at the shoot but when I got home I started getting this funny feeling in my stomach. I suppose it's butterflies. I haven't been able to stop thinking about her the past few days but so far my only communication with her has been professional. She mentioned she has a boyfriend but I don't know for sure she really does have one or not. I can't shake this knot out of my stomach. What do I do?
2006-09-27 10:40:11 · 17 answers · asked by azura2008 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as he's a boyfriend and not a husband, the possibiliity exists you could still have a chance. Get to know her on a friendship basis. Remain friends with her, with no expectations of anything further. If this other relationship dies, or is non-existent, you will be in the picture, and can make a move then.
2006-09-27 10:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would point out that she is a model (and therefore very attractive). And I don't know the artwork so I can't say for sure, but if it is a music video she was probably dressed provacatively as well. My guess would be this is nothing more than an infatuation that you would feel for any attractive girl. There is probably very little of the personality here causing this, so I would guess eventually you'll just get over it once you are away from her.
If you don't believe this however, then you must decide what to do. She isn't married yet, so I don't see anything wrong in trying to take her from the other guy (who apparently may or may not exist), at least morally speaking. But this could backfire on you, professionally speaking. If you were to cause problems between her and her boyfriend but she doesn't go with you, and other jobs come up, she may choose not to work with you. Or worse, she could give you a bad reputation among various producers and/or other models. It may not be a big deal, or it may turn out to be your worst nightmare while trying to get into the music business. If you choose to try, be very careful and extremely tactful in feeling her out for a possible relationship.
2006-09-27 17:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The butterflies in your stomach are probally to do with the music release. Because she has been helping you you think your emotions are directed at her.
2006-09-27 18:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get yourself together, you know she has a boyfriend, why are you putting yourself through this. You need to put the energy into going out and having fun. Why would you want something you can't get? Remember, we live in a real world, we can't have everything we want.
2006-09-27 17:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! You have a serious jones for her. Find someone else, and stay away from her as much as possible, or it will only get worse. I know you don't want to participate in a fatal attraction, do you???
2006-09-27 17:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by O.K.Q.T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away, especially if she has a bf, you don't know the guy, and don't want to get caught up in the middle of things. I've done it, it's not worth it!
2006-09-27 17:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by StonerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she has a boyfriend if does move on if she doesn't and she is interested your in your stomach problem take Pepto cures what ale's you
2006-09-27 17:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by soldierof the 82ndAirborne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she has a boyfriend you need to back off right?....you cannot step on another mans toes...unless you wanna go toe to toe with him.
2006-09-27 17:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with her and see if she seems keen on you.
don't rush in too quickly coz if she does have a bf you mite b in deep **** if you try and make a hasty move!
2006-09-27 17:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by blue_topaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give me £2500 and I'l have a quiet word with him.
(or a road legal trike)
2006-09-27 17:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by KU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋