I know this sounds like the normal cliche question, but I'm serious. I'm shy around guys when I like them, whenever I try to impress a guy or act normal around them, I end up doing somethin embarrassing or stupid, and I'm cute (not to sound conceited or anything, don't get me wrong! I don't do conceit.) but I'm not exactly one of the "hottie" type girls or whatever that every guy in my school seems to go for. And another thing is, not to turn this into a race thing or anything, but I'm African-American/ Puerto Rican, and I go to a mainly white school, with only about 12 blacks, and a few foreign students. It seems that all the guys in our school have no interest in the minority girls except for as friends, because most of the caucasian girls have the guys' attention, and the african americans aren't that big of a deal. I'm not saying that our school is racist, but I really really like this guy, and I want a Christian guy, since I'm Christian and he is too, so please help me!
2006-09-27 10:39:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you don't need to be the hottie type. Be the nice friendly type. get into some activities with the guys. And act confident and fun...and also dress nice while you're doing it. LOL...I played football in a skirt...that got attention. Don't worry about the minority thing. Just act confident make jokes and they'll notice you.
2006-09-27 10:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay be your self most guy and i mean 99 per of young guys what only one thing christian or not be carefull i have found that it is what is on the inside not the outside and liking someone for whats on the inside is what make a love last
2006-09-27 17:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Rick B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact, a smile and an incidental brushing of your hand against his arm/hand/shoulder would go miles in sending a message. Good luck.
2006-09-27 17:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by babalu2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't pretend to be someone you are not. It always feels good to be liked and loved for who and what you really are.
2006-09-27 17:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear abercrombie, become a big bich in school and then u might forget about him or he will notice u
2006-09-27 17:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by lilhotshigger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋