She might be bi, maybe she isn't, but she's my best friend. Should I dive in and find out, or just continue to be friends, though its hard for me to keep my mind of other things.
2006-09-27 09:22:35 · 14 answers · asked by stephiluvvv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not just dive in, that is like saying do whatever you want to anyone, just because you want to. talk your feelings over with her, and see what she thinks, or bring up the topic of bisexuality and ask her opinion on it, there will be your answer without ruining a friendship.
2006-09-27 09:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by helper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only do this if you're looking for a serious, committed relationship. If you think she might be "the one" then the friendship is worth the risk. Otherwise, it's definitely not worth risking the friendship for just a little bit of fun.
One more thing to think about is that any other realtionship you might have will be compromised by the fact that you have a crush on a good friend. Dating anyone else might feel like settling for less than what you want.
I'm currently dating someone who was (is) my best friend and things are great. My advice is to go for it!
2006-09-27 16:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by QuestionMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know if she is bi. It depends if you are willing to lose her if you two don't work out. That is the risk you have to think about. Friendship is important and sometimes, it is not worth the risk to have a chance to lose it. Sit back and look at everything and think about how she would take it and how you would be. Its a decision only you can make, but something you need to think about first.
2006-09-27 16:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this wrong for me writing this, but oh well, have drinks with your girlfriend and slowly seduce her, you should be able to tell by the level of resistance that she gives you if she is interested in experimenting with bi sexuality or not, once you go bi with your girlfriend know this, your friendship will be forever changed, is it worth the risk
2006-09-27 16:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO don't dive in NO, NO, NEVER. Even if she is bi, if y'all do have relations than what if it doesn't work out? You would lose a friend so i really think you should keep it as friends!
2006-09-27 16:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by dcoley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to risk a friendship?? Lovers come and go but best friends are very hard to find
2006-09-27 16:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her one of these days, and let her know how you feel and what your thoughts are...She may be feeliong the same way as you...You never know...What have you got to lose, besides a friendship, and even then, if she is a true friend she will respect you for being honest with her.
2006-09-27 16:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by TXDUDE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first i think it might be safer to find out if shes bi. and if she is, i would go for it..because you'll always wonder what could of been if you dont. and im sure if shes a good friend she wont stop being your friend for the notion.
2006-09-27 16:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, just simmply ask her. Let her know how you feel and say that you don't want to scare or offend her, but that you think it is only fair to her to reveal your feelings. Good luck to ya!! GaryT
2006-09-27 16:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try a move, and if she "rejects" you well she does but hey at least you gave it your best shot right?
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2006-09-27 16:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋