he just seems to take it normal... but its me whos hurt down under... i have cried and cried thinking about when he left to go to london for studies... ive got many advices like move on... he is not the one.. etc... i yet sit n cry thinking about him everyday.. he doesnt seem to know anything... i thought he understood me very well... untill the day he left... now he seems busy ... i am missing him like anything before and cant concentrate on myself... if i go tell him ill loose a friend (i think) .. according to sooooo many ppl they say i should move on and show him m cold shoulder... he is online right now... again he seems busy... i wanna talk soo many things but he aint replying...
2006-09-27 09:04:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fukkk im no stalker.... this guy is my very very good friend.... we knw each otha in and out since may... and got very close since past two months
2006-09-27 09:08:14 · update #1
If he's not replying, and he knows that you REALLY NEED TO TALK (i assume you have said that it is important), then move on. If he doesn't think what you have to say matters, then his priorities do not lie with you. The best thing you can do to settle your mind over the whole thing is to find him and talk to him in person. People deal differently when confronted face-to-face versus the net. Tell him exactly how you feel about him and go from there. Be prepared for the worst, and hope for the best. Knowing where you stand is the best thing that you can do for yourself, you will either gain closure or start a new relationship, then you can get on with your life. It's not healthy to dwell on crap like this, especially if it's over a guy. Get it taken care of ASAP so you can move on, no matter what direction that may be. Take care!
2006-09-27 09:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest you have a few choices. you can keep after him but if he isnt answering he dosn't like you. Or you can move on its your choice their are many more guys out there look at my ?'s and see what i am talking about asnwer them and ill gt back too you. take it from some one who kows i have followed a girl a friend but when i asked her out it just went down the tubes so in time i had to face it and move on i still can't completly move on because i dont have some one i really love yet. it might be you
2006-09-27 09:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my time here on this earth and being a man we are cruel creatures. I think you should move on maybe date his best friend or his brother, but whatever you do you need to quit crying about him, becouse it is clear hes not doing it about leaving you.
2006-09-27 09:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by rrpm01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should tell him you may be taking a risk but then he will know and you may not hurt as bad down deep! My best freind told me that he likes me and we are dating but we still also friends!
2006-09-27 09:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by snazzyxjazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of it really is incorrect that he wouldn't have a GED, yet he must have a plan. If he wouldn't have a plan, you would finally end up being his mom. no one needs that. see you later as his existence is on route you need to be ok.
2016-11-24 22:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by orson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well either he is acting pricey or he is ignoring you bcos he has someone else,go one he is not the only one,we seem to think so,but eventually we all go through it after sometime.so time is the only cure here so just let it flyby,if it happens,it happens or else there is so much in life then just him,so cheer up!!!!!
2006-09-27 09:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by americandreamboy4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've already answered 1 of ur questions on the same issue - seems it didn't help much - but I'll still stick to my previous answer....
2006-09-27 12:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by simi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knows you like him, so just ask him if he wants to go out sometime when he comes back from london. he probly likes you so much he had to go somewhere else to keep his mind off of you and on his studies!
2006-09-27 09:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Hugh Jass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are not smart. You need to tell us what you are thinking. So tell him. If he says no, then move on. Atleast there won't be any regrets.
2006-09-27 09:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Gentle Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u go London for him..he will be infront of you and you are secure about urself too....
2006-09-27 10:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋