I'm I the only man, that when he notices a women does'nt think about sex striaght-away, but admire her beauty, get to know her better, her hobbies, what makes her sad or happy, sex would come many weeks or months later, but the other day i went out with a group of friends from work and all they were interested in was 'getting laid' no matter what happens...I felt so embarrassed, and went home early alone...
The next day they were boasting at work how they got the girls into bed....God how cheap, and vulger....I have'nt been getting on well with them, as they think i'm too old fashioned, and that i'll never get a Girlfriend with that type of attitude. But i don't want to treat women like that, i just want to find True Love
2006-09-27 08:41:04 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good for you. Your friends are laughing now. But, you'll have the last laugh when you have the perfect girl that makes you happy forever.
2006-09-27 08:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by KMAB 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey..your totally not old fashioned!! you're a really nice man and girls would be dying for you if they know that you're not like some other men who just think of sex all the time. you're just being really thoughtful and respectful to girls..its good to know about the girl before you get your hands on her. i would love to have someone like you..so caring and thoughtful. Dont worry about not having a girlfriend because im sure many girls will love you for respecting them like they should be and dont listen to people boast about how they got girls into bed cos im guessing half of them are lying and just want to show off..but in reality they're just jerks!!
I wish you all the best! you're girlfriend/wife will be so lucky to have such a caring boyfriend/husband!
2006-09-27 09:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere there is a young woman who thinks the same as you. (Maybe 2!) You will need to be alert to spot her, since she won't hang around rowdy young men all that much.
You have a mature attitude, and now just need to relearn how to have fun - whatever fun is for you. In terms of transactional analysis you need to activate your 'child' a little more often - rebook a belated childhood. I get the impression your co-workers can't let go of it even for a moment.
2006-09-27 10:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tertia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWW! You are REALLY sweet!!! You are not "old fashioned" You have some respect, you have values! you have a MIND! lol you will find a girl! alot of girls that I hang around are looking for someone like you, you wont stay single forever! Living in New York has changed me and my beliefs...like you should wait till after you married for sex. why is that so wrong??? Its not! don't be ashamed!
2006-09-27 08:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have morals and standards - dont drop these just to fit in with your mates - be yourself and you will find a lady that appreciates a true gentleman over a jack the lad!
Good look on your search for true love!! xx
2006-09-27 21:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think decent women can only stand back and admire a guy like you! You sound very decent and I am sure with that attitude you will attract a very nice woman!
Those dorks are only out for slappers who want wat they want sex and only sex! If you are looking for more than that maybe you are better off out of it and choosing some different friends who value you and your personal values within life!
2006-09-27 08:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Glitterstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are awesome...good luck
ps
don't let those idiots at work sway you into thinking like them.. personally I wouldn'y give a guy like them the time of day.. I much prefer a gentleman to a pig
2006-09-27 08:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls they went to bed with are likely thinking the same...wanna get laid too.....you'll find your other half someday
2006-09-27 10:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by devy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there's not too many of guys like you by the pound!! Feel lucky that you have respect for women.
They will be the ones on their own, so don't worry, save yourself for the best.
2006-09-27 08:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then the guys you work with are deuche bags. And to tell you the truth they prolly didnt even 'score' or were to drunk to get it up. And if they did....wonder why the chick hasent called them back? Guys like that are idiots...I mean we all go through phases...but who wants herpes?
2006-09-27 08:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by starbrite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋