2006-09-27 08:36:39 · 23 answers · asked by missy_michelle88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes just be confident!
2006-09-27 08:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important issue here is not whether or not anyone likes you, but do you like or love yourself. It seems as though you are unsure of yourself and perhaps a bit insecure by the way you referred to youself as "not being the skinniest person". People respond to what you put out, so if you are sending messages of low self confidence in the way you speak and carry yourself, then that is how people will treat you. So what if you're not the skinniest person in the world? Thick and luscious are two of my best friends! Embrace your body and other attributes and appreciate them for what they are. If you don't no one else will. So to answer your questions, if you think this gentleman is worth your time and attention, ask him out. If he says yes, then have a great time. If he says no, don't trip because he's just moving out of the way so that you have room for a truly great guy. Be encouraged and keep your head up. Real beauty comes from within...
2006-09-27 15:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what..not all guys like skinny girls. Trust me ALOT of guys like lets say non skinny girls :-) Alot wont admit it..some will..but theres a lot out there.
What will it hurt to ask him? If you don't you will never know. You can always write him a letter to if its easier for you to tell him how you feel that way. Or send him an email.
How do you know no one likes you? You don't. You don't have to necessarily ask him out right away either. Build a relationship / friendship with him and see where it goes. Email him, write a letter, go up to him and ask a stupid question and then the next day go up to him again and talk about something you both have in common.
Good Luck and remember SKINNY IS NOT WHAT EVERY GUY WANTS!
2006-09-27 15:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Debra J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is going to want to date a woman who has no confidence in herself. Just because you aren't skinny does not mean that no one likes you. I am not the skinniest person either but I have had plenty of people like me and currently have a wonderful boyfriend. It is about being happy with yourself! If you want to ask this guy out then you should the worst he could say is no. The important thing is to remember that just because one person doesn't like you doesn't mean that there isn't someone else out there who does.
2006-09-27 15:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by gazinmcbane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever let a thing like your weight hold you back. I'm not the skinniest girl either but believe it or not I tend to get alot of guys that most people wouldn't expect me to get. Sometimes people actually judge people by personality more than looks and if you're anything like me you have alot of personality. So my advice is that if you really think this guy likes you and you really like him go for it, ask him out, because if you don't someone else might do it and than you'll be kicking yourself for not doing.
2006-09-27 15:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by 31flavors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does u having to be skinny have to do with anything???? hunny be PROUD of who and what u are, and everyone else will too...u have to love urself b4 anyone else can. if u like a guy, dont just "ask him out" start talking to him first, get him to see who u really are and see if he's interested, u can tell by the way he acts with u. if u think he feels the same way, sure why not, go for it...if he's being a punk...move on, theres plenty more out there! :o)
2006-09-27 15:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of asking him out directly, and setting u'rself up 4 rejection ... try "Group Dating".
Do something like have a Pumpkin Carving Party. Invite your friends including him. Pass out invitations ... and ask for them to call and RSVP ... when he calls you, you can flirt w/ him. At the party, just be nice and have fun ... socials like this are great places to let the magic of love out into the air!!! Beware, the party could let you down if you only focus on him ... soooo, focus on the party instead of him only ... who knows, maybe there's a guy crushing on you and you'll like him better ... u never know with parties!!!
2006-09-27 15:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
skinny, fat, bald, gray, dont matter. What in the world does that have to do wit hy ouasking him out or with anyone liking you? dont sell you self short, and ask him out if you like him! The worst can happen is he says no, right? Enjoy your life, and stop letting other people hold you down!
2006-09-27 15:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by cricketwinner@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends, to save yourself from getting hurt, find out if there are any connections, similarities between you two that you can start up a conversation. Before asking him out, I'd talk to him for a while and get to know him then casually ask him out for coffee or something and build it from there.
2006-09-27 15:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by Fantasy686 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if your big my hubby is big and i love him. If you love yourself forget what anybody else says its your life not there and you better start living it. Ask them out its the new times women have a say so. You have your oppinion so use it what is the worst thing that can happen they say no . oh well move on find a new person to ask out wont hurt to ask.
2006-09-27 15:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. The sexiest thing about a woman aren't her measurements, the clothes she wears or the color of her eyeshadow or lipstick. Its all in the attitude baby.
2006-09-27 15:40:26 · answer #11 · answered by germaine_87313 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋