she is a stay home mom and I work nights but when I'm off work she dosen't seem to want have any relations with me physical or verbale and when I work she dosen't ware p.j. bottoms but when I'm home she dose.
2006-09-27 08:30:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she reads in bed or on the couch all the time romance books, and as far as house work the kids do the picking up or the laundry,she just tells them what to do,but when her dauters freinds come over she comes alive with energy and spunk
2006-09-28 06:50:50 · update #1
Hidden cameras.... 0.o that might work
2006-09-27 08:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what it is, and it's not cheating. I started staying home with the kids about a year ago and let me tell you what, nothing has made me feel less attractive. I'm just not in the mood after taking care of the kids all day, being bored out of my skull and doing chores. Just leave me alone. If you want her to be more interested in the bedroom, she needs to have a more interesting day...give her spending money, if you can, or figure out ways for her to get out of the house and have some fun, or encourage a hobby. When I was working, I put on make up, did my hair and had really sexy, but professional clothing, I got hit on all day and it made me soooo in the mood. When you feel sexy or beautiful it makes you feel like a tiger at home. :) And about not wearing bottoms to bed, that is her way of saying, no thanks. Try to just look at her and tell her how beautiful she is, out of the blue, for no reason. Don't go overboard though.
If she is avoiding you, like not being in the same room as you, listening to a lot of music, spacing out, just flat out ignorning you, then I would say there could be someone else that she is thinking of, it doesn't mean she has acted on it though. Try being her prince charming again, she may need to be reminded once in awhile.
Good luck.
2006-09-27 08:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well those things don't mean she is cheating.
She may be having issues with you though.
Ive cheated once, so let me see.... does she go anywhere that you don't know, or have phone conversations and hung up quickly, anyone call the house, does she hide her cell phone or bill, do you call the house at night, does she act at all secertive be size those things u mentioned?
Not that I really did... I cheated for 5 months and he never knew.. I confessed. Long story.. I regret it!
2006-09-27 08:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it matter if she is? it sounds like you already have a trust issue going on here.
She could NOT be cheating and you would still be suspecting she is.
You two need to talk about this as a couple. If after this talk you do not believe she is telling the truth then you two need to have another discussion - this one about terminating the relationship.
like I said.. it doesn't matter if she is or isn't - the real problem is that she has given you some reason (and this isn't the ONLY thing that has sent a red flag up for you) for you not to trust her. that has to be delt with. if it can't be delt with to your satisfaction you owe it to yourself, her, your child(ren) and your relationship to terminate it.
2006-09-27 08:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that she doesn't wear pj bottoms when your not there? Anyways....if you think she might be ask her about,because if you don't your just going to make yourself believe something that might not be really happening and then you'll make a big mistake.....talk to her about it and be honest. It's the only logical thing you can do.
2006-09-27 08:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a hidden video recorder and find out. It would make me real curious why she only wanted to wear clothes when I was there too... Maybe you could go to work one evening and not really go to work...A night when you think it would be happening and just make her think you are at work and show up at home unexpected...
2006-09-27 08:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she comes home with a smile on her face or... seems a little stretched out down there.. ahahah
sounds like she might be cheating but more than that, u need to think about "why" she isnt into u anymore. just because she isnt "with" you doesn't mean she is with anyone else but look from inside urself first before her.
2006-09-27 08:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by nick_in_miami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she doesn't wear pj bottoms while you are at work?
You're not even old enough to correctly spell DOESN'T, VERBAL, WEAR, or DOES, let alone old enough to be married with kids.
2006-09-27 08:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take off early from work some night and see what she's doing
2006-09-27 08:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by wildone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mabey She's only cold when you're home. Leave the AC on when you leave.
2006-09-27 08:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋