Today I Found Out That My Three Year Old Cat Is Dead. Her Name Was 'Kitty'. I Am Thirteen And Sad Out Of My Mind. What Do I Do?
This Question Is Dedicated To My Best Friend
Kitty S. Found Dead At 11:07 AM. You Were
The Best Cat Anyone Could Ever Ask For.
Luv Yah...
2006-09-27 08:30:31 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Pets ➔ Cats
I'm very sorry. People who don't have pets won't understand why it is one of the most hurtful things in the world to lose a beloved pet. I lost my cat nearly two years ago and I often still think about her and what she'd be doing.
If you can get hold of the book 'Chicken Soup for the Pet Lover's Soul', you'll find a very sad but beautiful little poem about pets who have gone over the Rainbow Bridge and how they wait patiently until the day they are reunited with their owners again. It won't make you feel much better but it might give you a bit of assurance that Kitty is in a happy place now.
2006-09-27 09:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by starchilde5 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss. At first this suggestion may seem a bit insensitive towards the memory of Kitty, but think it over. Sometimes the best thing you can do is to go and get another cat. From my own and others' experience I can say that it really does help. Not only will you be helping yourself get over the death of your cat by focussing your attention (I don't mean forget about Kitty), it will lift your heart, and you will be giving another very lucky cat a good and loving home- what better way is there to honour the memory of your cat than to give another cat a happy life?
2006-10-01 17:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by apple84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girly Just take it one day at a time, I know you have probably heard that often but that is all you can do for now. Don't listen to people who say it was ONLY a cat, you know different, KittyS was a member of your family. When you are ready to move on, maybe ask for another cat, it may help ya later on..
2006-09-27 16:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss, I wish you could have had her with you longer. People who love cats are very special. It might help if you do something in her memory. I donated some blankets to a humane society when my kitty passed. I also bought myself a ceramic plate with a kitty that looked just like her. I am sure you will think of something.
2006-09-27 15:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by my sign 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry about your cat. I had to have my cat put to sleep on Saturday, shortly after he was diagnosed with cancer. As hard as that was for me, at least I knew it was coming. I can't imagine suddenly finding my young cat dead.
Time will make things better. Until then, do what seems to work for you. Sometimes I need to just stare at his picture and cry my eyes out; other times I need to get out of the house and focus on something to give myself a break.
2006-09-27 16:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by melissa k 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know what it's like to loose a pet that's close to you. A last year, I lost my cat, Chester. I was 14 (I'm 15 now) and she was 20. She had been around my whole life. I would recommend getting another cat, once you are ready.
2006-09-27 16:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry for your loss. It is horrible to lose a cat. My prayers are with you, and I am sure that Kitty is looking down on you from heaven! >
2006-09-27 15:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sydney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry about your kitty. This is how life goes, I am sorry to say. You can still love your cat no matter what happend. You will get over it soon sweety I promise, it gets easier.
2006-09-27 15:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by Alicia Goins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about losing your cat, but if that is the worst day of your life you are really blessed.
2006-09-27 16:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by Lenny B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. Mybe get another cat. It always cheers me up. And love it and care for it. But you'll always love your other cat.
2006-09-27 16:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋