Yes, all of the above. It is the man's choice if he wants to cheat on his wife. There are many reasons for straying. If I can make him happy for a little while, fine.
2006-09-27 08:03:12
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answer #1
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answered by me! 4
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I was in the military ... stationed overseas in Germany for 2 years ... I slept with a few married guys ... some of them I knew were married and some of them I didn't know were married ... !
I'll be honest .. it was the easiest relationship I've ever had ... no strings attached ... and no emotional ties to the man ( at least that's the way I made it ) he got what he wanted and I got what I wanted ... sex ... even if the wife found out there wasn't much they could do since it takes two right ... and it was their husband cheating ... did I feel bad doing it .. no .. but hey I've learned a lot since then and know what I was doing was wrong but still I had a great time ... !
Do I go after married men now ... never ... but I still like flirtin' ... and the wives hate it ... lol ... !
2006-09-27 08:15:33
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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No, to be honest, I really don't have any interest in fooling around with a married man. I like my life the way it is, and that would just be adding drama, and potential pain. Besides, I want a man who is ready and able to go have fun... The problem with married men is that their time is limited- they always have to go home, or work around some schedule, can't stay out all night unless it's some big "planned" event, they're always in a hurry, always nervous, and then they start doing the guilt thing.
Married men just aren't that attractive to me ... and they're never free on holidays and the only vacation you can ever take with them is to some yukky city for "business".
2006-09-27 08:09:10
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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With a screen name like "Penis Questions" sounds like you are obsessed with the use of one of you organs over all the others.
There are plenty of women who will mess around with a married man, yet how many movies or true life stories have you heard about the "other women" wanting more and telling the wife what has been going on. You need to identify what you want. If it is a one night stand, you will need to go find a drunk women who is looking for sex, will give you what you want and can't track you down or won't run into you and your wife somewhere. If you are looking for an affair you might as well start planning how you will divide up you belongings when your marriage falls apart.
I don't know anyone who has had an affair and stayed married.
Go to one of those encounter weekends with your wife to renew your interest in her, or talk to her abut a separation. I just don't believe you (or anyone)deserves a woman at home , and one on the side. Leave the single women for the single me, and snuggle up with your family thru the upcoming holidays, while us singles wish we were you.
As Cher said in the movie Moonstruck, "Get over it!!"
Kimmie
2006-09-27 08:13:22
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answer #4
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answered by kimmie 2
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It does seem some women are attracted to men on their fingers. Here are the reasons I think they would be.
He is someone they can't have, it's taboo.
They aren't tied down themselves
They get spoiled without having to do the laundry, take care of the kids, and clean!
They hate other women and want to ruin someones life
They feel special that a man would ruin his marriage for a chance with her.
With saying all this Ive know plenty of people who cheated and it never works out. If you don't want to be with your wife, get a divorce then date someone new, cheating only hurts everyone involved! What goes around comes around...
2006-09-27 08:08:22
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answer #5
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answered by Afinity 3
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Woopwoop, Maury show! No, I'm just kidding you. Are you serious? 11 years and this man is signing on sites like that as divorced as widowed? Does your friends know about this? Confront him with other people as it will act as witness and pressure. Do you have the feeling that he is, if not, already cheating on you with other women? Does he show the signs, high amount of perfume, coming home late at night (12am +), stopped paying attention to you unless it's an emergency, possession of women's clothing that is not yours, text messages, etc. If he says your marriage is through, kick his *** to the curb! You deserve WAY, WAY better than this man, even after 11 years of marriage. If you find the right man, you can go WAY BEYOND 11 years! :)
2016-03-18 02:00:31
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answer #6
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answered by Anonymous
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Honestly, I never wanted to and never will. I respect women and their feelings. There are a lot of HONEST single men I would rather be with. I believe in being true to myself and others. I wouldn't want to hurt someone just for a stupid fling or affair. There is no man on earth that is worth that to me. I believe in what goes around comes around. I wouldn't ever want that to be done to me and wouldn't want to do it to anyone else. I don't need those kind of cheap thrills.
2006-09-27 08:09:34
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answer #7
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answered by c2t 2
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The married man thing is a fun fantasy, but I couldn't because I know the women would be hurt, because I know I would be if it happened to me.
More so than none, a women thinks about the other women's feelings more than a man thinks about the other mans feelings.
2006-09-27 08:04:00
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answer #8
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answered by Anonymous
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You are sad my friend... I hope you find what you are looking for before you loose all the good things you have...Why would a man who Takes a Vow in the House of God fool around on his wife.. I am not an idiot and know it happens but it dosen't need to.. Leave her, rather than hurt her... Or are you that selfish?
2006-09-27 08:04:23
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answer #9
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answered by Anonymous
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H-LL FREAK NO!
I want my man all to myself, and I'm not the type to screw around; I'm a committed type wanting a monogamous long-term relationship.
To me, sex isn't good if it's not done out of love and long-term commitment.
Plus, I would not freak with a taken man; how would I feel if some woman was messing with my man? Well, that woman of the taken man would feel just as hurt and furious, angry, betrayed, etc. as me!
2006-09-27 08:06:35
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answer #10
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answered by Anonymous
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2006-09-27 08:03:11
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answer #11
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answered by anna a 1
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