So this guy that i've been seeing lately. He seems like a really nice guy and is interested in me. I have a great time with him and I do feel a connection. However, he's married. Seperated for for about 8 months and divorcing in the next month. (this is confirmed from an independent source). We've only known each other for about a month. Hes leaving on a business trip in a few weeks for 3 months. Should I just keep him as a friend?
2006-09-27 07:55:57 · 21 answers · asked by b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's potential here, so don't write him off too soon. However, I will offer one cautionary note. Guys who are splitting up latch onto the first available gal they find. They rarely give themselves time to look around. If this is you, he may seek greener pasteurs as his life settles down. Don't give up, but be a little cautious. Time is your best friend. Let time build between you, go out, experience each other, have fun, just don't make any rash decisions.
2006-09-27 08:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were in your shoes I think I would keep him as a friend & then when his divorce is final if you & he are still interested in a relationship then I say go for it but I would wait until the divorce is over & done with & as for now I see nothing wrong with you keeping him as a friend
2006-09-27 08:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd only remain friends w/ him until the divorce is final and he's back from the business trip. No point in setting yourself up for a potential heartbreak.
2006-09-27 07:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-27 07:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by anna a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kyle Petty?!! You hafta be kidding. also, I save in ideas Mark Martin a pair years in the past declaring that 1/2 the adult men on the music do not have a license to force, no longer to point force in NASCAR. also, someone truly reported Stewart, lmao. i'd ought to opt for Carl Edwards, Burton, Kahn.
2016-12-02 04:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see how things go. At least he will be divorced when he comes back. I think I would keep an open playing field and when he gets back, I would see at that point.
2006-09-27 08:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously you dont WANT to keep him as just a friend, or you wouldn't be asking.
you should just take control of the situation. decide how close you'll allow yourself to go. what are your boundaries??? have you thought of that yet? you be the one to decide what you're going to do BEFORE you're with him... then when you are with him, don't cross those lines no matter how bad you want to.
the way ppl get hurt is that they allow themselves to 'just do a little bit more than they had planned' , etc...
he'll be back..you can always go farther, but you can't go back**
good luck~
2006-09-27 08:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel a connection and he's gonna be getting out of a bad relationship, why not go for it? Don't just be friends, where's the fun in that?
2006-09-27 08:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by hey_finny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he coming back after 3 months ? Why dont you start then aftr he returns and not now.
My sugesstion is based on my experience believe me :o)
2006-09-27 07:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest keeping in touch while he is out of town, and then see where it goes when he comes back. Keep it casual for now so there is no pressure.
2006-09-27 08:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋