How do you go on when your best friend dies at only 20 years old? I cant go on living without him. HELP!?

Answer 1

i know it hurts to lose someone close to you.. but seriously, plenty of people have it much worse.. at least you are still alive and can do great things with your life.. and do you think your friend would want you to mope about it? of course not.. ........ you are going to be sad and angry, that's normal.. and at times it may feel like there's nothing left in this world.. but look at your past, how things have changed over your life.. and know that those types of changes are still coming... you will be happy again one day and you'll be able to look back at your friends memories and smile. you may consider professional help if you are having trouble dealing with this, there are counselors that can help you cope.

Answer 2

I've been there and I know its not easy believe me. #1 I think that you should talk to someone and let out all your hurt and frustration.There are alot of support groups to deal with this sort of thing. I really urge you to go and work threw this you may meet other people who are going through the exact same thing you are right now and you could possibly draw strength from them Its nice to have someone to talk to about how you are feeling especially if they themselves have had a similar experience. Just think about it at least. Also hold tight to your memories of your bf and they will give you strength threw this. Maybe even speaking with or staying connected to your bf's family will help you as you both try to move on. I'm sure your bf wouldn't want you to feel so alone and depressed . Please go to a support group /doctor or talk to a school counselor or trusted family member to help you get threw this. Good luck . Keep me posted please.

Answer 3

i'm sorry about your loss. i had a very close friend who died at the age of 25. he died in a car crash. he were so close. i loved him very much. time is the only thing that helped me to heal. i still think about him. i miss more than words could ever express. but there is light at the end of the dark tunnel of grief. find someone you can talk to and get constructive advice from. i know it sounds corny, but time will help to ease some of the pain. but the love for your friend will only grow with time as the memories become less painful. take care of yourself and don't worry. it does get better.

Answer 4

I am sorry about your friend. You are grieving, and moving on takes time. He will always be in your heart, but life will get easier. You have every reason to continue with the gift of life God gave you. If you need help, see a counselor or pastor - and keep talking about your feelings. You are in my prayers.

Maybe you can volunteer for whatever caused his early death, i.e. sickness. That would help give your life meaning to help others.

Answer 5

Try to remember the good times you had together, I have had a few friends pass in the last few years and I try to think of the good times more than my loss.

Answer 6

we are all going to die ..

i remember seeing a woman on Oprah show .. she got her husband killed in Cabul .. but she was smiling and laughing with sense and doing it in some classy way .. this is what her husband wanted , that she goes on

its the hardest thing to do ..BUT THINK OF IT (what is the better to do to him than the Hardest thing ?!!) this is what u need to do .. be there and be alive and normal ..with all the dare it takes ..so if u were a special person then u would do it and go on ..and remember the good times ..

best of luck !

Answer 7

You can, you will and you must.

To do less would dishonor his memory.

Please accept my sympathies, I am terribly sorry for your loss.

Answer 8

You have no choice. But do see a shrink.

Answer 9

im sorry