When I asked her if she wanted one she replied, "no". So then why am I asking if she said no? Becuase I have a feeling she was just saying that so she wouldn't make me feel inadequate. We have sex regularly and she orgasms every time whether vaginally, or by oral stimulation. However I will be gone for three months and we are both going to stay faithful. Does that throw a curveball in the situation? Ladies, does she really want one? - Of course you don't know anything about her, however all of her friends have them and she may be pressured by them. Do all women want a vibrator, but some feel like they shouldn't, because of a relationship? What are your thoughts?
2006-09-27 07:43:44 · 22 answers · asked by shoelace3451 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question, almost as good as how do you know both of you are going to be faithful. Leave it alone if she wants to buy one let her, don't worry about her being satisfied while you are gone.
2006-09-27 07:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by david_d112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have said "no vibrator" becuase she does worry about you feeling inadequate. I thought the EXACT same thing when my b-friend asked if I wanted a vibrator for christmas! I was worried for his feelings. You know what he did? he got me a vibe that doesnt look like a dick. That way theres no compariosn. He got me a slim vibe with tiger print on it. No worries about him not being so good anymore! Try a vibrator from The Adult Toy Shoppe, they have lots of vibrators that are slim, small and don't look like a man-tool!
2006-09-29 11:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Dannigrrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if she can go without having sex for three months than no don't get her one because when you get back she will be all over you like chocolate is on a candy bar but if she wants to have a good time by herself then yeah get her one and just let her know that this is a gift for her so she can think about you while she orgasms.
2006-09-27 07:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by lala_chic2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets put it this way, the only women I have ever known to say that they didnt want one was either a nun, firm christian or saw the whole "self pleasure" as a sick act. If she is none of those then she is probably just shy about the whole topic with you because it IS a personal matter. I bet you if you got one for her to find while you were gone, not just hand it to her, you would probably come home to a nice suprize. Women know how to handle themselves, give her a toy and she will praising you for it.
2006-09-27 07:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend that used sex as a weapon. Whenever she was mad at me she would pull out her vibrator, get off and then roll over and go to sleep. I started buying her bigger and bigger ones and she loved it. I stretched her out so damn big that no man would ever fit in her and then I left her. Don't do it.
2016-03-27 13:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a woman wanting a vibrator. It doesn't mean you are inadequate. It just means she wants to be able to still have fun when you aren't around.
If she doesn't already have one, let her get one. In the future, you can incorporate it into your love making.
2006-09-27 09:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every woman needs a good vibrator, whether she is in a relationship or not. And I mean a good vibrator... not these cheap ones that take little batteries.... get her one and a soft d*ldo too. She will appreciate it-trust me.
2006-09-27 07:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is over 18 then she most likely has at least a vibrator if not other assorted toys.
does it mean you are inadiquate? no... not unless she uses them instead of you!!
we girls like more than just the right hand like you boys.. so relax.. enjoy the trip and she will enjoy the toys!
2006-09-27 07:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I love toys, but my sister doesn't she thinks it is un-natural and just not right. So it really depends on the person. It probably would be fun for her to have a pocket rocket while she is talking to you on the phone when your gone. Good Luck
2006-09-27 07:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A vibrator is a good idea. She may feel a little uncomfortable discussing masterbation with you, so she just tells you she doesn't want one. Buy her one and leave it for her whenever you leave. Don't tell her about it, just leave it for her to use if she wants to. Do it discreetly.
2006-09-27 07:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋