my b/f wont play with me or give me oral. when he does play with me its only for a few mintues? i have talked to him about this but he really doesnt say much. what should i do?
2006-09-27 07:40:54 · 25 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't play back..............
2006-09-27 07:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect that sort of thing from guys that are really young. They aren't experienced or educated sexually enough to know what they are and are not supposed to be doing. The reason he doesn't say much when you talk to him is because he is embarassed. He knows that he has no clue what he is doing and now he knows that you know as well.
Step back from the sexual content and reevalute why you are with this person. If sexual experimentation is the reason, then you can find other people to fit that need much better than he is obviously doing. If you actually care about him, then give him a break. In time he will grow more comfortable with you and the relationship and he will go farther on his own. Best of luck.
2006-09-27 07:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by A.R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your intimate relationship doesnt make you happy, then you wont be happy in general. Guide his hands where you want them. Insert his fingers for you. Give him head and while he is laying flat on his back, move your privates to his face. Dont force it of course, just see how he reacts to your vagina in his face. Slowly lower yourself onto him and see if he starts oral...just see how that goes. If still no response, then you should probably find smoeone who can meet your needs on a physical and emotional level.
2006-09-27 07:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to weigh your personal needs against your love for him. If the relationship is shaky and you're not getting satisfaction, and you think someone else could please you, then consider moving on. If the relationship is stong and you want to keep it, then get help. Either a counselor, religious leader, or community service might do the trick. But it sounds like he's just turned off, and doesn't want to talk about it.
2006-09-27 07:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Horses ....
Try teaching him how to ride ... give him a lesson! Show the poor uneducated idiot how to ride the pony ... if he still fears the sadle ...cut him outta the heard and get a bronk buster ....
save the car a ride the cowboy ..... There's more to riding than the road trip .... he's gotts do the prep-work....
Everyone knows a girl needs more than a seven second ride !
2006-09-27 07:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't want to "play" with you until he knows that you two have a relationship that will last forever. Don't push him to have sex (oral or any kind.) when he doesn't want to yet, because you're triggering his bad weaknesses, and that can affect your relationship with him.
2006-09-27 07:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play with him or give him oral until he reciprocates, it's only fair.
2006-09-27 07:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is something he doesnt enjoy, or is nervous about doing it. Try playing with yourself while he watches.
2006-09-27 07:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by Ember B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him how important it is to you that he opens up and gives his take on the situation at hand.
2006-09-27 07:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
refuse to give him any until he plays with you more,and then after you get off,go and take a shower and leave him hanging.
2006-09-27 07:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl rape him! If you wont it give it to him good and make him run back for more.
2006-09-27 07:46:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋